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Question 5 years? - July 9th 2012, 10:36 AM

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Where do you see yourself in 5 years time?

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Re: 5 years? - July 9th 2012, 10:50 AM

As I'm 17, I see myself still in school, sadly.
Hopefully though, it'll be a filmschool of some sort (as I would like to be a film photographer)
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Re: 5 years? - July 9th 2012, 11:27 AM

Hopefully at university doing a degree in Medicine

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Re: 5 years? - July 9th 2012, 11:06 PM

Let's see, I'll be nearing 21. What I would like to see myself doing is trying to get a record label and start on an album or a single. Realistically though, I want to be in college for a psychology major, minoring in child and adolescent development, and hopefully also taking a music course.

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Re: 5 years? - July 9th 2012, 11:23 PM

I'll be about 25 years old, so I'm hoping to be in grad school at that point & moved out on my own. If things work out, hopefully I'll be out of this town. That's as much as I hope for at this point.
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Re: 5 years? - July 9th 2012, 11:41 PM

I'l be about 23 years old, so I hope to be out of school by then and I hope to have a good job

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Re: 5 years? - July 9th 2012, 11:47 PM

I will be almost 26. So, with a job and hopefully a girlfriend and my own house.

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Re: 5 years? - July 10th 2012, 12:41 AM

I'll be about 23. So...

I'll hopefully be finished with college (I'm planning on a standard 4 year degree) and living in a small but nice apartment with my love. By that time hopefully we will be engaged, and be thinking about buying or renting a small house. After that comes the babies!

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Re: 5 years? - July 10th 2012, 02:15 PM

College? Yeah, hopefully the one I want to get into

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Re: 5 years? - July 10th 2012, 02:29 PM

In 5 years time....probably in a mirror, or some other reflective surface.
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Re: 5 years? - July 10th 2012, 02:50 PM

I'll be 26. I'll either be dead, in a psychiatric hospital, or hopefully completely free of depression, self harm and have some friends and maybe a boyfriend. I'd like to either still be in my current job or in uni doing a degree in learning disability nursing.
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Re: 5 years? - July 10th 2012, 03:25 PM

College. That's about all I can say right now, but I'd like to have also beaten my depression and self harm by then.

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Re: 5 years? - July 10th 2012, 03:26 PM

I'll hopefully be living on campus, completing my last year at uni and graduating with a major in psychology and a minor in English. As for where I'll be health-wise I have no idea whatsoever.

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Re: 5 years? - July 10th 2012, 03:30 PM

In five years, I'll be 22. It's hard to imagine that right now, but I see myself in college and five years free of self harm by then.
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Re: 5 years? - July 10th 2012, 05:15 PM

I'll be 27, almost 28.
I can't tell you where I'll be living since my husband is in the military and we don't have any idea where his next duty station will be, but I CAN tell you that... In 5 years, my husband and I do plan on having one or two little rugrats in the apartment/house. I see myself as a teacher (hopefully kindergarten-2nd grade), inspiring my students to achieve their dreams. I'd love to have a new car at that point, and I'd love to have quite a bit of my excess weight gone and my health getting better.

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Re: 5 years? - July 10th 2012, 07:59 PM

I'll be 19 so i plan to be somewhere not in the US and going to college there. I also hope to be SH free for a couple of years at least.

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Re: 5 years? - July 11th 2012, 01:13 AM

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Re: 5 years? - July 11th 2012, 01:25 AM

I'll almost be 22. Hopefully I'll be completely out of treatment. Hopefully I won't be acting on ED symptoms or self injuring or anything. I would also like to be in school still with a better job than at Target. I'm not too set on having a partner, but that would definitely be an added bonus.
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Re: 5 years? - July 11th 2012, 06:16 PM

In five years, I want to be on my own completely independent without any support. I want to be working someplace I love (hopefully with young children PK-2nd) and have a partner.
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Re: 5 years? - July 11th 2012, 06:29 PM

IM hopeing to be at my 17th birthday, Yay 13 years of survival for me!

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Re: 5 years? - July 11th 2012, 07:04 PM

I'll be verging 27, urgh - scary.

I'd like to be in a comfortable job, preferably in my industry of choice but if I have to sacrifice that, so be it. Slowly chiseling away at my mortgage and very possibly thinking about children and marriage assuming the right person is around. Quietly crying every night at the thought of turning 30, ha.
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Re: 5 years? - July 11th 2012, 09:05 PM

Hopefully somewhere close to finishing my post secondary education possible and mostly likely in kinesiology but I may change my mind by then as I plan on taking a gap year.

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Re: 5 years? - July 11th 2012, 09:12 PM

I'll be twenty-three, so I'll hopefully be done with school, and hopefully have some sort of job. I'll have a place for myself. Possibly married, though probably not, and that's okay.

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Re: 5 years? - July 24th 2012, 05:20 PM

I'll be 23 and hopefully I'll have found an artist willing to set up a webcomic with me assuming that in 5 years time my writing skills are finally good enough

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Re: 5 years? - July 24th 2012, 07:36 PM

Well, I'm almost 15, so I'll be almost 20.
Hopefully, I'll have beaten self-harm, my eating disorder, depression, self-hatred, suicidal thoughts, etc.
If I have, then I see myself in college. For what, I don't know.
If I haven't, I see myself struggling as I am now, or dead.


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Re: 5 years? - July 25th 2012, 11:24 PM

I see myself being a successful Police Officer with a degree in Criminal Justice and Social Work.

I hope you know that you deserve it all. The best, the most honest, the most beautiful purest love in the world. Not only to be loved by others, but to be loved by yourself. To look in the mirror and think "Yes, I'm exactly who I want to be". To speak up and be proud of yourself. To be brave and open. You deserve the nicest and most caring people to walk into your life. You deserve it all, you know. The whole world...
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Re: 5 years? - July 25th 2012, 11:39 PM

I'll be 29 (I feel old) I will be 2 years out of my masters which should mean I'll have my PC license and I'll be counseling people. I should also have my PCC by then. I want to find my husband and either be engaged or married and considering future children.

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Re: 5 years? - July 26th 2012, 03:31 AM

I'll be about 19, so university, hopefully.
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Re: 5 years? - July 26th 2012, 08:38 AM

I'll be 24.
Hopefully, I'll have graduated from law school, got my practicing certificate, secured a job placement in a law firm for a year, and will be standing infront of the Supreme Court of Victoria being admitted to practice as a Barrister. Hopefully, I'll specialise in intellectual property law, real property law, criminal or contract law.

I'll also hopefully have a steady relationship by then.
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Re: 5 years? - July 30th 2012, 08:30 PM

I'll be 24 and hopefully have done my PGCE and be a teacher - if that's what I decide I do want to do. I would love to have met the person I will spend the rest of my life with. I also hope to have done some mission work somewhere, maybe Africa, India or Brazil. I also hope to be volunteering for an organisation like the Samaritans and I hope my life will be on track then.

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Re: 5 years? - August 2nd 2012, 09:44 AM

College, and hopefully with a job and a driver's license, since I'll be 21.

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Re: 5 years? - August 2nd 2012, 09:47 AM

Probably still living with my parents and/or living on my own but scraping by paycheck-to-paycheck and going nowhere in life.

(I really don't have high expectations for the future, lol.)

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Re: 5 years? - August 4th 2012, 04:24 AM

I'll be 21 and enrolled at the US Air Force Academy pursuing a career as a fighter pilot or a computer scientist Let's hope the former
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Re: 5 years? - August 4th 2012, 04:57 AM

In five years, I'll be 28 and will have just celebrated my 4th wedding anniversary! I see myself being successful in either a teaching career (secondary), journalism, or something to do with the government. I'd like to think that, by then, there will be a little one around or at least thinking about children for the near future. I'm excited to see where life takes me.

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Re: 5 years? - August 4th 2012, 11:29 AM

I'll be 22 nearly 23, so I'd like to be finishing uni and starting a job in conservation. Unfortunately, I can see myself still struggling with the same things I struggle with now. Hopefully I'll be in some sort of treatment and not dealing with it on my own.

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