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How can I get a life? - December 31st 2013, 08:37 AM

Okay, 2014 is right around the corner, and I'm planning to be less online and get out more, but I don't know where to make the first step, can you guys help?


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Re: How can I get a life? - December 31st 2013, 09:04 AM

Hello!

I think it's great that you decide to be more involved outside as your New Year's goal! Trust me, you won't regret your good decision.

I can suggest trying to join school clubs or any other extracurricular activities. You can also volunteer or find a new hobby and find a community with the same interest. Spending time with your friends by hanging out is also a good step to be more active outside. You can consider trying a new spkrt or any other ways of exercising

I believe that is all I can suggest. I hope this helps!

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Re: How can I get a life? - December 31st 2013, 09:08 AM

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Hello!

I think it's great that you decide to be more involved outside as your New Year's goal! Trust me, you won't regret your good decision.

I can suggest trying to join school clubs or any other extracurricular activities. You can also volunteer or find a new hobby and find a community with the same interest. Spending time with your friends by hanging out is also a good step to be more active outside. You can consider trying a new spkrt or any other ways of exercising

I believe that is all I can suggest. I hope this helps!

~KW
Thanks, I'm thinking about getting into touch with old classmates and see where it goes from there.


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Re: How can I get a life? - December 31st 2013, 09:27 AM

Hey, there!

KW provided you some great recommendations for getting out more! Sports (if you don't want to play any, then watching them), clubs/groups (i.e., chess team, environment club, debate team, etc), volunteer organizations (i.e., soup kitchens, helping the local police/fire departments, etc), or even getting a part time job can all provide you with dozens of opportunities to get out more, and will also allow room for the creation of new friendships!

On relatable note (that you brought up), I think getting in touch with old classmates is also a great opportunity to get out more, and will allow you to build on to some of those old friendships too!

I hope that you can reach your goal for 2014!


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Re: How can I get a life? - December 31st 2013, 09:53 AM

Hey there, Jordi!
Firstly, your aim for the new year is very much ideal for kids now a days!
well, you can start with spending time with your family? have family outings maybe? and also you can get a part time job? and do some social service? sounds a bit boring but social service can be really fun and it also makes you feel better about yourself!
Take part in school activities, plays and sports and etc etc, there are many to be honest.
Honestly Jordi, once you step out of your house, you'll see there is so much that you can do and that will influence your life and you in a positive manner! :')

Hope I helped and I hope you can fulfill this aim of yours! :') Bless you and happy new year in advanceee!

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Re: How can I get a life? - December 31st 2013, 09:59 AM

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Hey there, Jordi!
Firstly, your aim for the new year is very much ideal for kids now a days!
well, you can start with spending time with your family? have family outings maybe? and also you can get a part time job? and do some social service? sounds a bit boring but social service can be really fun and it also makes you feel better about yourself!
Take part in school activities, plays and sports and etc etc, there are many to be honest.
Honestly Jordi, once you step out of your house, you'll see there is so much that you can do and that will influence your life and you in a positive manner! :')

Hope I helped and I hope you can fulfill this aim of yours! :') Bless you and happy new year in advanceee!

If you need any help just drop a message or something! Take care of yourself! and stay blessed!

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Thanks, I already have a small job on Saturdays, doing folders with my cousin who is the same age as me, I didn't like it at first, but then I saw it more like hanging out than work, and I want to go further than that.


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Re: How can I get a life? - December 31st 2013, 10:30 AM

well, social service? that way you'll be helping people and your city and well yeah.
   
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