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Re: what do you want to do before you die? -
April 5th 2012, 08:19 AM
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:Lose a massive amount of weight
:Go skydiving
:Get married to that special someone
:Open a camp (that will be one week long) for girls/lady's to help them achieve their true beauty by teaching them how to do their own makeup, how to dress properly, how to do their hair, find what clothes looks good on them, how to wear/walk in heels, eat well, ... You get the picture
"If I could just unzip my skin, step out of this body, then I would see who I really am.” -Wintergirls
Re: what do you want to do before you die? -
April 5th 2012, 10:40 AM
-Meet Brendon Urie.
-See Panic! At the Disco live again. *woke me up* if you like. Inspired me to recover
-Cliche, but Bungee Jump
-Find love, not lust, and have children
-Recover from ED completely
-Give £1000 to charity when/if I'm in a position to do so
-Disney land
-America
-Be completely, truly, honestly happy, both with myself and my life.
Only the last is a necessity
Take as long as you need.
Last edited by Kindred; April 5th 2012 at 10:42 AM.
Reason: Because I needed to fix the smiley face
Re: what do you want to do before you die? -
April 11th 2012, 03:45 AM
I realized some more.
I don't know why but I just want to stand at the edge of somewhere outside (like a cliff/the Grand Canyon) and just look out at sunset and feel a gentle wind at my hair... Something nice.
Meet a few people in person.
Adopt a child.
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
Like you're not really happy but you don't wanna die
Like you're hanging by a thread but you gotta survive
'Cause you gotta survive
Re: what do you want to do before you die? -
April 12th 2012, 01:00 AM
Come out as Lesbian
Meet the special someone who loves me for me
Go to England
Go to the Harry Potter Exhibit/ part of Universal Studios
Disneyworld.( again)
WE DECIDED MY BEST INTEREST, how can you know, how can you say what MY BEST INTEREST is? What are you trying to say, I'm crazy? Well, I went to your schools, I went to your Churches, I went to your institutional learning facility, so how can you say that I'M crazy? (Suicidal Tendencies)
Re: what do you want to do before you die? -
April 17th 2012, 10:58 PM
-Sky Dive
-Get married/have children
-Reach all my life goals
-Be all I can be
-Travel around the US (aiming for 25-30 states)
-Visit England & France.
"You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.”
— Malala Yousafzai
Re: what do you want to do before you die? -
May 2nd 2012, 02:06 AM
-Become a vet.
-Have at kids.
-Get married.
-Lose weight.
-Travel overseas, maybe Italy or somewhere in Africa.
-Be active in donating to charities like the Red Shield and Red Cross.
I think that's it...
Be proud of your place in the cosmos. It is small, and yet...
it IS
Re: what do you want to do before you die? -
May 2nd 2012, 04:58 AM
Hmmm.....
*Travel to all continents
*Save someones life
*Find a job that i love and stick with it
*Be truly happy
*Meet some people who i have always wanted o meet
*Adopt kids.
Thats all i can think of now.
From day one I talked about getting out
But not forgetting about
How all my worst fears are letting out
He said, "Why put a new address on the same old loneliness?"
When breathing just passes the time
Until we all just get old and die
Re: what do you want to do before you die? -
May 6th 2012, 10:11 PM
Take a pair of shoes and throw them over the telephone wire, and see how long they stay there...(There are 3 pairs at the top of my street, none thrown by me though)
Re: what do you want to do before you die? -
May 7th 2012, 01:41 AM
my bucket list is long but I'll put it on here anyway and I THINK THAT IF YOU DONT HAVE ONE, YOU SHOULD MAKE ONE!
....live by the all-caps message
1. Finish a Rubik Cube 4-11-11
2. See the Great Wall of China
3. Publish a book
4. Ride a dolphin
5. sKyDiVe
6. Scuba Dive/ snorkel
7. Go to Las Vegas Baby!
8. Ride in a Hot Air Balloon
9. Meet a famous movie star/ singer (andrew rannelles andrew rannelles andrew rannelles!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
10. Be in the newspaper
11. Win a trophy
12. Laugh until I cry 3-31-11
13. save a life <3 <3
14. adopt something
15. wear fishnet tights
16. Visit somewhere haunted and experience the spirits 5-11-11 O.o
17. Write a full professional song 8-12-11
18. play the flute, trumpet, and saxophone
19. get the lead in a play(at least mic part)
20. be in a natural disaster(flood,tornado,hurricane,fire,etc.) 7-27-11
21. design my own wedding dress
22. visit every continent
23. plant a full garden complete with fountain,waterfall,trees,body of water,flowers
24. swim in the ocean
25. be on TV (even for a moment)
26. make a vase out of clay 3-23-12
27. ski/snowboard without failing
28. cliff dive
29. go to the play “Wicked” (OR BOOK OF MORMON!!!)
30. Visit the Sydney Opera House
31. Ride an elephant
32. find shoes over $2000.00
33. read the EnTiRe dictionary
34. see a shooting star 7-1-10
35. see a meteor shower
36. see a solar eclipse
37. make a time capsule
38. see a time capsule opening
39. sing on a stage while playing guitar
40. ride a gondola in Italy
41. visit the Smithsonian Museum
42. go inside the Statue of Liberty
43. See and/or meet the president
44. see and/or climb the grand canyon
45. cut my own hair
46. learn a foreign language
47. get kissed under a willow tree <3
48. dissect :P a frog 2-21-12
49. find a four-leaf clover
50. pet a zebra (neigh)
51. pull an all-nighter =D
52. have a giant swear-rant(tee hee) 10-4-11
53. ride in a sports car [badass i know ]
54. break a record
55. ride in first class on a plane
56. eat Chinese food with chopsticks 2-3-12
57. have my own clothing line
58. ring a gong
59. go to a tea-tasting ceremony in India
60. stay in a teepee
61. get an amazing-looking professional-looking picture taken by/of me 2-4-12
62. find gold $$$
63. go to a drag race (.....not like the cars. like the one wear guys dress up as girls and race in stilettos
64. collect all of the state quarters
65. surf
66. zip-line
67. create a new ice-creme flavor
68. catch a butterfly
69. kiss the most <3 amazing boy 1-21-12
70. experience an all-drama rampage in one day 4-5-11
71. watch an EnTiRe horror movie
72. be involved in a boycott
73. find someone with beautiful eyes 10-24-11
74. go to a Mardi Gras celebration
75. conquer the yo-yo 4-20-12
76. say hello in 50 languages
77. get a strike in bowling 4-10-11
78. Make the Epic Suicide recipe
79. make an origami swan
80. find a rare shell(con-shell, starfish, sand dollar)
81. ride the world’s largest roller-coaster
82. ride in a taxi
83. take the subway
84. get neon highlights
85. build or at least be in a tree-house
86. throw a IV(one voice) concert
87. crack a glass by singing
88. learn to figure skate
89. make a house of cards
90. win at poker
91. go on a road trip
92. get lost in a maze (ok who wouldn’t want to do this!?!?)
93. visit a graveyard at midnight O_o
94. see a Broadway play(on Broadway)
95. get a facebook fiiiinnnnnaaallllllllllyyyyy!
96. find ultimate happiness 4-15-11
97. order room service
98. receive a dozen ~~~^~<@ roses
99. receive the best present (no specific date)
100. cook gourmet food
101. see 2 rainbows at once
102. be in a talent show (this at one point said AGT but...I’m making these more realistic)
103. look through a kaleidoscope 4-15-11
104. go to the Superbowl
105. learn the pogo stick
106. be on a commercial
107. hang glide
108. learn magic (AVABRA CADABRA!!!!)
109. fire walk
110. ride on the London Eye
111. white-water rafting
112. learn harp
113. dance in the rain 2-28-12
114. find the most amazing smile 4-5-11
115. sew/knit
116. walk through a waterfall
117. Do the Maypole
118. walk down red carpet 1-26-12
119. have the best night of my life 10-24-11
120. visit the Titanic
121. have Champagne
122. see the northern lights
123. learn a form of martial arts
124. portray an animal(s)...(in this case a hamster ) 9-23-11
125. ride in a glass elevator
126. throw a coin into Trevi fountain in Rome
127. learn sign language
128. Attend Loy Krathong, the sky lantern festival in Thailand.
129. Go on a safari
130. start an Internet blog 4-15-12
131. Be at Times Square on New Year's Eve for New Years(ball drop).
132. See the Monalisa
133. Visit all 50 of the United States
134. make wine
135. Participate in La Tomatina (a giant street food fight near Valencia, Spain).
136. Learn to play chess
137. spend a WEEK in silence :O
138. Go parasailing in Acapulco
139. Read all of Shakespeare's plays
140. Go to the Cherry Blossom Festival in Washington DC
(the ones that have dates have already been done) but this is what I must do before I die. Wish me luck PM me anyone
Re: what do you want to do before you die? -
May 19th 2012, 03:46 AM
1) Travel, study different cultures and travel <3 (WHICH I'M DOING RIGHT NOW... I've been to Canada, certain countries in Europe, and next year, hopefully, America and China!)
2) Go to university.
3) Have a girl/boyfriend/signifigant other.
4) Come out and be open and just live like myself!
5) Get a job as a writer/journalist/critic/gender therapist.
6) Get Married...
7) Have kids!
- Some where in all that is to have chest surgery, and maybe T, but I'm not sure about that. Nothing is set in stone.
I've said it once, I've said it twice, I've said it a thousand fucking times
That I'm OK, that I'm fine, that it's all just in my mind
But this has got the best of me, and I can't seem to sleep
It's not 'cause you're not with me, it's cause you never leave
Re: what do you want to do before you die? -
June 3rd 2012, 11:25 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Bella xx
-Become a vet.
-Have at kids.
-Get married.
-Lose weight.
-Travel overseas, maybe Italy or somewhere in Africa.
-Be active in donating to charities like the Red Shield and Red Cross.
I think that's it...
I figured out a few more...
-learn to knit...
-get my black licence before I'm 25.
-help my mum pay off her house, and my sister pay off her car.
-buy my mum a German Shepard....
Be proud of your place in the cosmos. It is small, and yet...
it IS
Re: what do you want to do before you die? -
June 24th 2012, 02:13 AM
- See one of my screenplays get picked up and become successful.
- Come out to my parents.
- Create and have published, a children's book; with my little siblings' help. { or my own children if I don't get this done when planned }
- Attend Pride at least once.
- Become fully and completely cured of my eating disorder.
- Meet my best friend in real life.
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June 25th 2012, 01:12 AM
-Travel to Italy
-Meet John Cooper
-Visit all 50 states
-be a person worth fighting for :P
-Marry the man of my dreams
-have kids
-name my first son Branden Darcy
Last edited by Cap's girl; June 25th 2012 at 01:14 AM.
Reason: i thought of more :)
Things to do before you die -
July 7th 2012, 04:38 PM
What do you want to do before you die?
1) Go to America
2) Go to Japan
3) Get married
4) Have children/adopt a child
5) Have a decent job
6) Get a degree in Psychology
7) Learn how to swim
8) Learn how to drive
9) Learn a new language (Spanish or French preferably)
10) Donate £1000+ to charity.
I wouldn't mind doing the Walk of Faith either
It looks amazing.
"Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself."
Re: Things to do before you die -
July 7th 2012, 05:59 PM
Ooh, those are all good things.
Mine are:
1. Marry the love of my life
2. Have at least one child of my own, not that I have a problem with adoption. I'd love to adopt too. It's just... You can't be pregnant with an adopted child, y'know?
3. Teach some sort of performing arts class
4. Publish a book, and actually have people READ it.
5. Become fluent in Japanese. Again.
6. Go to Japan.
7. Go back to that amazing tea shop my sister had her bridal shower at.
8. Play an amazing role in a movie. Any movie. I don't care.
9. Kick my drinking habit entirely.
10. Live in Tempe, AZ. With the big dogs.
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July 9th 2012, 12:47 PM
What do I want to do before I die?
1. Get back into singing.
2. Successfully complete my A-Levels to a high grade.
3. Learn to drive.
4. See all of the West End shows.
5. See the British Grand Prix (F1).
6. Meet or see my favourite music artists live.
7. Go to university.
8. Travel the world and live abroad for a year or two.
9. Eat pizza in Italy.
10. Perform or act on a big stage.
11. Build a career somewhere in Mental Health (I'm not sure what...yet!) and in the late future maybe try and become a Drama Therapist.
12. Visit all 50 states and go to Disney World and visit the Grand Canyon.
13. Fundraise and donate to charities.
14. Meet the love of my life and have or adopt children.
15. Sky dive.
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July 13th 2012, 07:21 PM
i would like to meet my brothers before i die. even if its only once, for less than a minute per brother, i just want to meet them. see them, really. i want to see them.
formerly snowstorm, GoneBeyondRepair, and Breathless in Love
Re: what do you want to do before you die? -
July 15th 2012, 10:43 PM
I'd love to visit places in Africa to do some mission work and really make a difference in somebody's life. I'd love to go to Australia. I'd love to visit the children I sponsor in Kenya and Brazil. I'd love to go to India. I'd love to have a husband and some children with a career that will support them all. I'd love to be able to help other people. I'd love to be alive.
Re: what do you want to do before you die? -
July 17th 2012, 10:48 AM
I want to be able to swim in the ocean without remembering what happened,
I want to be healthy (put on enough weight) to go back to Uni and keep studying and not be scared of everything. I want to be beautiful and happy.
I want to plant a whole flower garden, and have my own house and travel and interpretive dance in the rain and go back to London and Disneyland and be alive enough to experience it!
I want 2 kids but they’ll have to be adopted because I ruined my body too much.
I also want to ride a llama in Peru (don’t be dirty) and bike all of New Zealand
I want to raise awareness of mental health in our little country. Oh and I want to run a marathon and yacht around NZ and run on the beach everyday I’m there. I want to be respected and important and an ‘empowered woman’ and I want to publish my novel. After I’ve written it!
And I want to visit Sylvia Plath and Audrey Hepburn’s graves (=
Nothing much haha
You can usually find me on my tumblr, I’m here for you (=
Re: what do you want to do before you die? -
July 17th 2012, 11:51 AM
- Travel the world as much as I can afford
- Have a family of my own
- Become a successful Nurse
- To be happy most of my life than being unhappy
- Become a better drawer
- Finish a novel
- Own a satisfying car
- Continue helping others as much as I can
...Probably more things, but as for now..... TO BE CONTINUED.. hehe
Do you wanna come with me? 'Cause if you do, then I should warn you - you're gonna see all sorts of things. Ghosts from the past. Aliens from the future. The day the Earth died in a ball of flame. It won't be quiet, it won't be safe, and it won't be calm. But I'll tell you what it will be: The trip of a lifetime!
Don't trust a perfect person and don't trust a song that's flawless.
Re: what do you want to do before you die? -
September 6th 2012, 09:00 AM
Making a film and becoming a paramedic.
“At times the world may seem an unfriendly and sinister place,
But believe that there is much more good in it than bad.
All you have to do is look hard enough,
And what might seem to be a series of unfortunate events may in fact be the first steps of a journey.”
Re: what do you want to do before you die? -
September 6th 2012, 09:16 AM
I simply have two things I wish to do before I die;
travel the world with my fiancée and son.
change someones life for the better - be this through adoption, egg donation etc!
I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure.
I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle.
But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.
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September 6th 2012, 05:49 PM
• Get my concealed carry license.
• Travel even more. I want to see as much of the world as possible.
• Find our dream home, a house out in the country.
• Have two children.
• Experience spaceflight... hopefully it'll be more attainable of a goal someday, with the way technology is headed.