Stop caring what other people think

[AmazonQueen]

Ok so my second goal is to stop caring what people think of me.
stop holding back on things I want to do because I'll feel judge.
I want to create myself and not care who's watching, judging/ or critisizing.
I want to be myself and be all that I can be regardless of who is looking if they don't like it don't look right?

M. Shadows - "If it feels right to you then fuckin do it!"

does anyone has some sort of ideas to add to how i can start doing thing and develope into my own person instead of a mindless drone following the heard?

[Lightning]

Don't feel peer pressured by your friends. Do things you want to do.. stay away from the bad people in your life who get others in trouble.

I also have worked on this goal. I don't care what others say about me because I AM ME!
I ignore them -- as if I just heard the wind or air.

[kiwi_fish_bunny]

i think this is a wonderfull goal. good luck,

[Marguerite]

I'm sure you don't care but I think that is really admirable

I don't think you need tips. This is the sort of plan that requires no plan. Just do what feels right to you. Don't self censor. Be yourself and stand up for what you believe in. Good luck my friend, I shall be there attempting this with you

[sirjan xerdaj]

When you actually start to do this goal you're going to realize how easy life is when you don't care what others say about you.
But you should just a little. When you get a job you must worry what the supervisor or manager thinks about you.

And quoting M. Shadows is-is-is...

[AmazonQueen]

yeah uh..."i dont care" Marguerite but thanks :P i appreciate that haha
and lol Xerdaj Sirjan M. Shadows is quite the guy...haha i totally read that quote from him in a7x collectors edition revolver lol

and that im aware of lol...im still figuring out for myself when M.Shadows theory applies :P


(oh P.S! haha right back at ya! :P)

[Kitty.]

This is a great goal to have! Good luck with it!

[Adonai]

Awesome goal, I try to live that way.

Avenged Sevenfold Rocks!

[Union Of V]

Originally Posted by JamieRage

M. Shadows - "If it feels right to you then fuckin do it!"

Actually that's the only piece of advice that has ever worked for me! I did stop giving a sh. about what everyone else thought a few months ago, and it's definitely something you have to do if you ever want to feel good about yourself. After all, you're the only thing that matters in your life (logically!).

[BullyPreventionScheme]

Ooooh, I usually talk about bully psychology and stuff but i couldn't ressit on this thread

This what i did but:
Gather all the people you admire in both the real and fictional world
Then take personality traits from them and put them all together
Then you have your ideal person.
Then you use that as your goal and become that person!

I pretty much am the person i set OuT to be now, from when i was about 13-14.

[AmazonQueen]

Originally Posted by BullyPreventionScheme

Ooooh, I usually talk about bully psychology and stuff but i couldn't ressit on this thread

This what i did but:
Gather all the people you admire in both the real and fictional world
Then take personality traits from them and put them all together
Then you have your ideal person.
Then you use that as your goal and become that person!

I pretty much am the person i set OuT to be now, from when i was about 13-14.

i've desired my own disirable qaulities are my ambition, and making other people feel appreciated even though they sometimes feel akward because they are modest...my goal is to emphasis and excel in my own qaulities instead of mirror someone elses
maybe i misunderstood you though but thanks thats some good advice
i just don't want to try to be like someone else

[Union Of V]

Originally Posted by BullyPreventionScheme

Gather all the people you admire in both the real and fictional world
Then take personality traits from them and put them all together
Then you have your ideal person.
Then you use that as your goal and become that person!

That's a good idea! Doesn't work if, like myself, your idols are all fatalist depression-ridden characters, but I like the idea of self-actualisation

[AmazonQueen]

Originally Posted by Union Of V

That's a good idea! Doesn't work if, like myself, your idols are all fatalist depression-ridden characters, but I like the idea of self-actualisation

or if your hero is an exheroin addict :P but i guess he has some damn good qaulities too

[teen spirit]

You are definitely well on your way! Opening yourself up and exposing your "raw" identity is fantastic! It takes practice and courage but it will change your life-guaranteed!
This is the one of the major reasons that people are held back in life...because they were either worried about what others thought or they listened to what others said. Like I said; it will take practice because our society teaches to care about what others think.
Practice each day and also "don't take anything personally!" Others feel the need to give their opinions or advice (when we aren't asking or looking for it) and so we must practice not taking their comments personally or seriously...that is jus the way they see things...it is ultimately up to you the choices that you make and those choices will become easier and easier once you get in tune with your own gut feeling.
Way to go and what a fantastic goal to have because it will open up the doors to success for sure! I am living proof of it!!!

[Black_Cloud]

This is a very noble goal to have. Life is so much more rewarding when you are living for yourself, not others. You don't live to please others. It is your life and if if someone doesn't agree with you, then tough cookies.

[Sunlight.]

That's a really good ambition! I think it's great of you to stop caring about what other people think because then you tend to feel so much happier.

Good luck with it!