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Arrow the scary faces - April 27th 2012, 06:43 PM

I was raped two years ago and still have issues with things. My biggest issue anymore is dealing with not knowing what the person looked like completely. I only remember he had dark hair and he was skinny. When I go to places like wal mart or the mall and a guy fitting some what of my memory scares me, and even more when they smile at me or stare at me. It makes me constantly wonder is that him, would he remember me if it was, and if he remebers who he try it again? It doesnt really matter if someone is trying to be nice and friendly, I automatically go to those thoughts..
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Re: the scary faces - April 27th 2012, 08:31 PM

I know who the people who sexually assaulted me were, but if I see someone that remotely looks like them, I have a pretty same reaction. Have you talked to a professional? Like a therapist or counselor?


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Re: the scary faces - April 28th 2012, 01:05 AM

not much i want to but everytime we get into the subject i cant help but shut down and just zone out alot and dont talk its not that i dont but its like i cant


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