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Last night I was trying to do my coursework, I leave certain things behind in the living room and my stepdad start yelling at me cause I walked off cause I had enough of them treating me like rubbish.

As well as that my brother still keeps hitting me and I really aint coping at home no more. Last night I started to cut my wrists, due to was my stepdad called me "Dirty old slag" Im not old, i aint dirty and I'm not a slag.....Im becoming rather sick of being at home.

I can not tell and adult cause they do not help at all! They make it worse, Some days I just really wish I was dead!


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Re: The threat still goes on... - May 8th 2012, 01:44 PM

Hey Becky, just wanted to give my two cents.

You are obviously being abused on some level, and it is wrong on ANY level. The fact that you were willing to walk away says a lot- that you won't take that crap. Telling any old adult won't do you any good, but choosing the right one might do the trick- someone that you really trust and can get you the help you need. Phoning the police is never a bad idea either.

Also, although this is definitely a rough situation, there are always alternatives to self harm, and nothing should stand in the way of you and your well-being.

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Re: The threat still goes on... - May 9th 2012, 10:52 AM

Becky,

I know how you feel and it upsets me that you have to go through this. Maybe try seeing the counsellor at college? Or go onto the childline website. They have counsellors too.

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Re: The threat still goes on... - May 9th 2012, 01:16 PM

I'm sorry you're experiencing things which are clearly very traumatic and unhelpful.

I understand your feelings about not reaching out to a therapist because you don't see how they could help, but it could at the very least give you a sactuary from your home circumstances, and a place to express the feelings you're experiencing in your volatile environment.

I would Definitely suggest that you reach out to a counsellor, especially as you're turning the trauma inward and using SH to cope.

You can always PM me. I can empathise with your situation.


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Re: The threat still goes on... - May 9th 2012, 04:45 PM

it'll be ok Becky, you can get help, you can be free. If possible, spend as little time at home as you can. you can also get child services involved if your stepdad hits you, they have no right to hurt you. As with being with you brother, i suggest you get a lock for your door or something.... just avoid them as much as possible, and hopefully it wont happen to much. I'm really sorry that this happens to you


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