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Unhappy A guy is blackmailing me I NEED HELP!!! - December 24th 2016, 03:08 PM

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I know I've done wrong and I shouldn't have done it but I went on omegle and I did a video session with this guy, I wanted to go and he got really mad, he showed me a video of our session, lets just say I was naked.... he is blackmailing me now and he said if I don't follow his orders then he will upload the videos online, and the only way out is to be his slave for 1 month. I'm 16 and he is 33 from Russia i think... I really don't know what to do, I never meant for this to happen and I am really scared!!! Please someone help mee!!! Im so scared I'm begging you. I need help its URGENT.
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Re: A guy is blackmailing me I NEED HELP!!! - December 24th 2016, 09:54 PM

Hey there,

You haven't done wrong. The guy, who is much older than you, should never have recorded you, pressured you and then try to blackmail you. I know it's a scary thought that he has it recorded, but you can take comfort in the fact that if he ever uploads the video, it would be considered child pornography since you are under the age of 18. If you ever find the video online, you can report it and get it taken down as you didn't consent to the video being put online and also that you are underage.

You don't need to be his slave. I believe you are in the UK? If so, you can report him (or the incident) to CEOP (child exploitation and online protection). If you are else where, it's still worth looking into ways that you can report what has been going on.

Do you have anyone that you trust in your life that you could talk to about this? It can be reassuring to know that you have people on your side. No-one should put you down for what happened, because it sounds like you were pressured into it.

Please don't end your life. Nothing is worth ending your life over, especially since you have done nothing wrong.

Hope this helps a bit.


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Re: A guy is blackmailing me I NEED HELP!!! - December 25th 2016, 07:33 PM

As Celyn said, you didn't do anything wrong. At worst, you made an innocent mistake and you had no way of knowing this guy is a totally manipulative sociopath. You do not have to agree to be his slave or anything else of the sort. It'll be ok, I know this is scary, but the law is on your side.

This guy did many things wrong, from taking advantage of a child (sorry if you don't want to be called a child, but legally you're a child, and in this case that will work to your advantage), videoing you without your consent, being in possession of child porn, and blackmail.


Secondly, this won't necessarily ruin your life, even if it does get out. There are ways to present such awful scary situations by reminding people that when this happened you were a friggin' child who was taken advantage of by a creepy abuser and such.


First of all, collect any documentation you have (e.g. the threats he's made, proof the video exists, etc.) - if you don't have much, that's ok, just get what you can - and take it to the police. If you have a friend or adult in your life who you trust the most, talk to them and ask for their support in reporting this. Do not communicate with him further or tell him what you're going to do. The police can help. Ok?

It's going to be ok. Please don't feel like you need to end your life because of this. Life will be ok no matter what happens.




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