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Question Idk if this belongs here.. - April 24th 2017, 10:36 PM

A few years ago when i was 13. My uncle started acting weird. Very, touchy touchy i guess. He stared looking at me longer and differently at different places is the only way to put it. A week or too after this started, he told me he wanted to have sex with me.. he said he thought i wanted it too.. he didnt touch me like that or anything. No rape or anything accrued. But after he told me he just kept talking about how lucky him or anyone else would be to sleep with me and stuff like that.. for months i had night mears about what he wanted... if nothing happened..do i have room to complain or be upset...?
   
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Re: Idk if this belongs here.. - April 25th 2017, 03:52 PM

Firstly, welcome to TeenHelp!

Secondly, of course you have every right to feel upset and uncomfortable with how your uncle was behaving. It is unacceptable for anyone to be touchy with you and to make comments about asking for sex or sexual comments, but more so from an adult and a family member. Even though rape didn't happen, it's natural if your uncle kept talking about him or others having sex with you, that you would be worried and even have nightmares. It must've been a very scary experience for you to go through.

Are you in contact at all with your uncle now? It definitely sounds like it might be a good idea to avoid being with him, especially if you are on your own.

I'm also wondering whether you have told anyone what your uncle said to you? It's scary speaking up but you have the right to feel safe and be protected.


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Re: Idk if this belongs here.. - April 25th 2017, 07:32 PM

Thanks for wanting to listen. And im half a country away. I won't see him nor would i want to. But that means i cant see alot of the family i actually like. Oh and i did tell my mom and eventually my grandma and dad. My mom was the only one who reacted as she should have. I told because he had a daughter. I love her to death and i just want her to be safe.. thanks again for everything u said.
   
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Re: Idk if this belongs here.. - April 26th 2017, 02:35 PM

As someone said, you definitely have room to feel the way you do. There is no excuse for your uncle's behavior. I am glad to hear you told someone about this; it's good you didn't keep it to yourself.

Do you have anyone to talk to about this? Is professional help an option for you? If so, perhaps you can look into it. Regardless, you may benefit from writing about your experiences and talking to someone (even if it is not a professional) about them.


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Re: Idk if this belongs here.. - April 26th 2017, 08:16 PM

I dont talk to anyone really about it. And professional help is deffinatly not an option. I cant talk about my many problems to my mom to even ask. But i do talk to my boyfriend wich helps a lot. Thanks for ur comment though. Its very kind of u.
   
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