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It hurts - April 17th 2018, 07:47 AM

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I don’t even know nor care if this is I the right forum. This just happened and I can’t stop shaking.

I was feeling sad, so I went into chat rooms to meet new people. I met this one guy who was So nice and charming. I fucking fell for his trap. He sent me links so we could video call and none of them worked. I told him and he said that itwas because oft he area I wasn in.

He listed my address, name, city, state, and country.

He knew what version iPad I’m using and the update and everything.

He wanted “fun”. I said no. Told him to fuck off. To leave me alone

He said he was going too me get me

I said no

He kept listing names of girls he used and hurt

I told him to just leave my brothers alone and get me. I wanted them safe.

He said that he would do what he wanted to them. My baby brothers. All of them even the one who touched me

It tore me

He said he would kill them

I had to download an app so we could video call

He made me strip, rub oil all over my body, masturabats, and do exactly what he said

He just hung up after a while

I don’t know if he was pleased or what

But he knows my address

He knows my name

And I’m scared

I’m terribly scared

I feel so fucking stupid for falling into the trap

I’ve been told my whole life the dangers of chatting

Never in my life would I suspect this to happen

I know I made a stupid mistake

I know what I did was wrong

But he was gonna hurt my babies. My brothers

I had to protect them

My 14 year old brother hugged me, told me to not do it, and even gave me his blades for protection. He didn’t want to leave me, but I had to do what this guy wanted.

I feel so violated and hurt. I almost tried to end my life, but didn’t. I realized that people needed me

My babies need me. Their big sister.

I’m sorry that I failed in doing the right thing.


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Re: It hurts - April 17th 2018, 08:22 AM

HEy,
I'm really sorry this happened to you.

So chat rooms can be dangerous but some of them are okay. Like the chat room on here. If you still have the chat site or name he used for you to contact him I would go to the police and tell them exactly what happened, if you still have the app you downloaded I would take your phone to the police also because maybe they can get information on this person.


I know you were afraid for your family but if this ever happens again I would advise you to stop talking to them right away and tell your parents. I know the people make it seem like you have no choice and that you have to do what they want, but in reality you don't. Usually it is just a scare tactic to get people to do what they want. But sometimes it isn't.

I would honestly go and tell your parents everything that just happened so they are aware of the situation, because if he does know your address everyone in your family should be aware of this and on high alert.

A lot of teens make mistakes like this, all you can do is learn from it. You did the right thing about posting about it on here to get your feelings out. I would try and move on from this situation because If you dwell on this situation it will make you spiral down into a dark or darker place then you are in now.

I hoped this helped even if it was just a little bit. You can always PM/VM me anytime.

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Re: It hurts - April 17th 2018, 08:38 AM

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HEy,
I'm really sorry this happened to you.

So chat rooms can be dangerous but some of them are okay. Like the chat room on here. If you still have the chat site or name he used for you to contact him I would go to the police and tell them exactly what happened, if you still have the app you downloaded I would take your phone to the police also because maybe they can get information on this person.


I know you were afraid for your family but if this ever happens again I would advise you to stop talking to them right away and tell your parents. I know the people make it seem like you have no choice and that you have to do what they want, but in reality you don't. Usually it is just a scare tactic to get people to do what they want. But sometimes it isn't.

I would honestly go and tell your parents everything that just happened so they are aware of the situation, because if he does know your address everyone in your family should be aware of this and on high alert.

A lot of teens make mistakes like this, all you can do is learn from it. You did the right thing about posting about it on here to get your feelings out. I would try and move on from this situation because If you dwell on this situation it will make you spiral down into a dark or darker place then you are in now.

I hoped this helped even if it was just a little bit. You can always PM/VM me anytime.

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Re: It hurts - April 17th 2018, 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Aiyannah M View Post
I donít even know nor care if this is I the right forum. This just happened and I canít stop shaking.

I was feeling sad, so I went into chat rooms to meet new people. I met this one guy who was So nice and charming. I fucking fell for his trap. He sent me links so we could video call and none of them worked. I told him and he said that itwas because oft he area I wasn in.

He listed my address, name, city, state, and country.

He knew what version iPad Iím using and the update and everything.

He wanted ďfunĒ. I said no. Told him to fuck off. To leave me alone

He said he was going too me get me

I said no

He kept listing names of girls he used and hurt

I told him to just leave my brothers alone and get me. I wanted them safe.

He said that he would do what he wanted to them. My baby brothers. All of them even the one who touched me

It tore me

He said he would kill them

I had to download an app so we could video call

He made me strip, rub oil all over my body, masturabats, and do exactly what he said

He just hung up after a while

I donít know if he was pleased or what

But he knows my address

He knows my name

And Iím scared

Iím terribly scared

I feel so fucking stupid for falling into the trap

Iíve been told my whole life the dangers of chatting

Never in my life would I suspect this to happen

I know I made a stupid mistake

I know what I did was wrong

But he was gonna hurt my babies. My brothers

I had to protect them

My 14 year old brother hugged me, told me to not do it, and even gave me his blades for protection. He didnít want to leave me, but I had to do what this guy wanted.

I feel so violated and hurt. I almost tried to end my life, but didnít. I realized that people needed me

My babies need me. Their big sister.

Iím sorry that I failed in doing the right thing.
OMFG Aiyannah who the fuck do I need to hurt I love you
   
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