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Idk why they do this - August 30th 2018, 12:54 AM

I'm just, ugh. I'm in tears right now because my stepdad keeps talking crap about me. And my mom always thinks I am lying and called me a whore for liking a guy. I don't know what to do. I hate feeling like this. I hate that i can't ever have a decent relationship without being called names by my parents

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Re: Idk why they do this - August 30th 2018, 11:44 AM

I am so sorry to hear that this is happening. I don't have much time right now to write a long post but I felt like I had to say something. Just know that you don't deserve the kind of treatment you are getting. You deserve to feel attraction and love and lust and you deserve to be curious about these feeling and to want to engage with them. you are COMPLETELY normal, don't ever let your parents or anyone else make you feel otherwise.
What do you mean when you say your stepdad talks crap about you and your mum thinks you're lying ?

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Re: Idk why they do this - September 2nd 2018, 11:55 PM

You definitely don't deserve this kind of treatment. Something to think about is that by nature, a lot of people want their abusive parents to change and they hold onto that hope. The hope can be a positive thing, but it can also be painful because many abusive parents do not change. It is hard but maybe you can try to lower any expectations you have of your parents; anything above those expectations will just be a pleasant surprise.

Do you have a safe place, like your bedroom or a place outside of the house you like to visit? Maybe a friend's house? Utilize places like that. You can also consider joining some things at school, looking into work, or volunteering so you can get out of the house as often as possible and thus spend less time near your parents.

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