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Touches my boobs - February 3rd 2020, 09:40 AM

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Saturday night I was in town to drink and dance.
It was so fun. And then I had to pee.
I was waiting for a toilet to be free, and then some guy comes over and tough my boobs and I tried to get away and say leave me alone but he keeps toughing, and then I just ran. My boyfriend helped me and hugged me.

But I cant stop thinking about it.
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Re: Touches my boobs - February 5th 2020, 05:42 AM

It can be so hard to deal with being violated like that. All you can do is remember that it was not your fault. You did not cause that to happen to you. And just take it day by day. Lean on your partner when you're feeling down about it, don't brush it off and say you're fine if you're not. Talk to the people you trust. You will get through this


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Re: Touches my boobs - February 5th 2020, 07:59 AM

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It can be so hard to deal with being violated like that. All you can do is remember that it was not your fault. You did not cause that to happen to you. And just take it day by day. Lean on your partner when you're feeling down about it, don't brush it off and say you're fine if you're not. Talk to the people you trust. You will get through this
Thank you so much for your reply
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Ive talked to my bonus mom about it.
I just dont feel I can talk to my bf, cause he gets really angry about what happened to me. And I understand him. Just hard.





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Re: Touches my boobs - February 6th 2020, 01:38 AM

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Thank you so much for your reply
It helped a lot.

Ive talked to my bonus mom about it.
I just dont feel I can talk to my bf, cause he gets really angry about what happened to me. And I understand him. Just hard.

It is hard. Things like this are never easy to get through. Just remember that you do have the strength to get through it. Some days will be harder than others. You might find yourself being wary about strangers passing on the street or feel bad about yourself. But remember that again, it was not your fault and not every stranger is like that. It can be hard to find the good in people after an assault happens but its still out there.

If you have the funds, taking some kind of boxing or self defense class can feel really empowering. Remind yourself that you are beautiful and that you are strong and that you can overcome anything thrown your way. You will be okay. It may not be today or tomorrow but you will be.

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Re: Touches my boobs - February 6th 2020, 12:07 PM

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It is hard. Things like this are never easy to get through. Just remember that you do have the strength to get through it. Some days will be harder than others. You might find yourself being wary about strangers passing on the street or feel bad about yourself. But remember that again, it was not your fault and not every stranger is like that. It can be hard to find the good in people after an assault happens but its still out there.

If you have the funds, taking some kind of boxing or self defense class can feel really empowering. Remind yourself that you are beautiful and that you are strong and that you can overcome anything thrown your way. You will be okay. It may not be today or tomorrow but you will be.

Im not on here super often but feel free to DM me if you ever need to talk
Yeah.. I suffer from anxiety and schizophrenia, and Im already really scared of strangers. And then this happens

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Re: Touches my boobs - February 7th 2020, 05:18 PM

I'm so sorry to hear this happened to you, some people do not respect others and their boundaries.

Remember, you are not at fault here.

I suggest reaching out to the people you trust for support during this time.

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Re: Touches my boobs - February 8th 2020, 08:33 AM

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I'm so sorry to hear this happened to you, some people do not respect others and their boundaries.

Remember, you are not at fault here.

I suggest reaching out to the people you trust for support during this time.

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Im doing a bit better.
Think I just got shocked





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Re: Touches my boobs - February 9th 2020, 07:09 AM

Hello there,

I'm so sorry to hear that this happened to you. As other members have said, it was not your fault and it shouldn't have even happened in the first place. I'm glad your boyfriend is helping you.


   
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Re: Touches my boobs - February 9th 2020, 09:44 AM

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I'm so sorry to hear that this happened to you. As other members have said, it was not your fault and it shouldn't have even happened in the first place. I'm glad your boyfriend is helping you.
Thanks
I guess I’m okay again.
Just got shocked.

But yeah, my bf he’s my hero





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Re: Touches my boobs - February 10th 2020, 02:16 AM

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I guess Im okay again.
Just got shocked.

But yeah, my bf hes my hero
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