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Question This really urgent feeling..? - July 8th 2009, 10:23 PM

I know it's not horrible, or even that bad or anything, but I have this weird feeling that I'm going to be raped this weekend, or very soon. I even have a feeling on who.
It's not that I'd want to be, I just have this gut feeling..
Does anyone know why I'd feel like this at all..?

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Re: This really urgent feeling..? - July 8th 2009, 11:05 PM

Hey there,

It must feel very scary to have such a premonition. I'm wondering if what you are feeling is kind of a random feeling (like an irrational fear almost) or if there's substance to it. If there is substance to it (meaning you were threatened with rape, you know someone who is a rapist, you know someone who might do that to you, etc.) then it's VERY important that you reach out to an adult immediately who can help you. Either way it might be a good idea to talk to someone about your feeling. Can you give us some more information about what's going on?

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Re: This really urgent feeling..? - July 9th 2009, 12:39 AM

Maybe you are feeling this way because rape has been on your mind? Have you recently talked to someone about rape or heard about someone it happened to? Hopefully it won't come true and good luck. Maybe to keep yourself safe don't go anywhere alone, always carry a cell phone on you, and maybe learn some self defense techniques.


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Re: This really urgent feeling..? - July 9th 2009, 12:56 AM

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It must feel very scary to have such a premonition. I'm wondering if what you are feeling is kind of a random feeling (like an irrational fear almost) or if there's substance to it. If there is substance to it (meaning you were threatened with rape, you know someone who is a rapist, you know someone who might do that to you, etc.) then it's VERY important that you reach out to an adult immediately who can help you. Either way it might be a good idea to talk to someone about your feeling. Can you give us some more information about what's going on?


Not really, I know someone who locked me in his room, sat on my back and tickled me. It's not that bad, but I think he didn't do anything more because he knew I'd tell my mom and his mom. That's who I think is going to rape me.
I got the feeling in the middle of camp, but I knew it wouldn't happen there. For some reason I knew if wouldn't happen there, but I do feel like it's going to happen soon.
I told one of my friends, and she was kinda quiet for a few seconds, but then she changed the subject.





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Maybe you are feeling this way because rape has been on your mind? Have you recently talked to someone about rape or heard about someone it happened to? Hopefully it won't come true and good luck. Maybe to keep yourself safe don't go anywhere alone, always carry a cell phone on you, and maybe learn some self defense techniques.
Nope, not that I remember...
I can't carry a cell phone because my cell phone doesn't have service.
And I'm leaving in 2 days, and that's about when I'll see the guy I mentioned above.
(And my signature is wrong, I'm actually leaving in two days, I'll see my friend in like a week. I didn't realize that, and I'm too lazy to change it )






And I'm leaving today, sooo if anyone says anything after 5:00 central time, I won't be able to see it. /:

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