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My full story (Major *TW* graphic and wrong) - July 25th 2009, 02:43 PM

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I dont exactly know what to say, just i know i have to tell it as completely as I can.
Sorry if it doesnt make sense or if i stop half way or anything. Sorry if its long.

On the 26th of June I went off into the city to go drinknig with some good mates of mine (I was sober driver).
All was going well until I had to go get the car because the boys I was with couldn't even walk properly. I always park my car in the same place as I thought it was safe as its about 5 doors down from the major cop headquarters. The only thing is its rather dark and has a river running beside the road. Anyway, walked down to get my car alone, after arguing with my then bf because he wanted to walk with me but someone had to look after the others. I got within 6 - 8 carparks from where my car was when I saw a very nice looking Evo 7, and since Im a car fanatic I stopped to have a look at it. Because it had tinted windows I didnt notice it had any occupants until 1 opened the door and got out and we started talking about the car. Stupidly I didnt listen to my gut instinct as I have grown up with guys and so thought I could look after myself. When I had had a full look at the exterior I was offered if I wanted to look inside which by that time I knew something was up. I declined the offer and got pulled in. The one guy drove while the other, who had pulled me in, started tormenting me by talking about what was going to happen. Each time I started to cry or asked for them to stop I got a cigarette stubbed out on my arm. In the end I gave up. I remember we drove up onto the hills surrounding the city because while they did all manner of things to me,(including at one point an electric pen, hands, anf a blade) I just tried to block everything out and concentrate on those lights. After they had finished raping and sexually asaulting me, they drove me back into town and pushed me out of the car. I then realised it had been an hour and a half since I had gone for the car. Got the car and the bf noticed something was up instantly as he went tohug me and I broke down and told him to F*ck off and never wanted to be near him or any guy again. At the start of this week I felt sick so went to the doctor, explained what had happened, and so got a full test done. Found I was preg. Went home and told the parents the basics of what had happened, and got insults thrown at me and kicked out. So now Im 5 weeks preg, have another person with me that i have to look after (my brother) and just dont really know what to do.

Worst thing is, it was my 1st time ever and I had always thouht I would get to choose who i would get to give my v plates to.

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Re: My full story (Major *TW* graphic and wrong) - July 26th 2009, 07:55 PM

That is definitely a hardship. Is there a family member that you could live with? Or try and communicate with your mom and dad, maybe have a therapist or something help you out. If worst comes to worst, I'd go and try to get into a foster home, or try and stay with a close friend.

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Re: My full story (Major *TW* graphic and wrong) - July 28th 2009, 09:57 AM

I really think you need to contact your local police station. Hopefully you got some kind of look at these guys and give them their description as well as describe the car. With it being that type of car, chances are there are few of them, and with it being so close to the police station, they may have gotten the incident on video camera. Seriously consider it.

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Re: My full story (Major *TW* graphic and wrong) - July 28th 2009, 08:15 PM

im so sorry this happened to you.
it was not your fault and you didnt deserve it
those guys are bastards.
you need to contact the authoritys so they can get what they deserve.
i hope there is someone you can go an live with.
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Re: My full story (Major *TW* graphic and wrong) - July 30th 2009, 12:35 AM

thats awful what happened and even worse your parents kicking you out. have you talked to a counsellor about it? that i could help you. are you going to keep the baby? remember its not your fault what happened. have you talked to the police about it? i think you should but its totally up to you. pm me if you need anything
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Re: My full story (Major *TW* graphic and wrong) - July 31st 2009, 06:24 PM

Oh my...
That's horrible. I'm so sorry
PM me if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here for you and anyone else who needs help.
Wow... How is the pregnancy in general? Have you found a place to live?
   
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Re: My full story (Major *TW* graphic and wrong) - July 31st 2009, 07:19 PM

omg! thats horrible.
im really sorry.
i cant believe your parents kicked you out aswell. have you found somewhere to live yet?
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Re: My full story (Major *TW* graphic and wrong) - July 31st 2009, 08:55 PM

how horrible! that must have been awful for you! and how terrible that you aren't getting any support from home. what are you planning on doing about the baby though? you have to remember, that even if the circumstances are bad, there is still a baby that needs looking after. so first of all, i suggest maybe getting therapy or something to get over the shock of being raped, and then workng with your therapist to decide what you're going to do. are you going to keep the baby, get an abortion, or put it up for adoption? PM me anytime if you want to talk.
   
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Re: My full story (Major *TW* graphic and wrong) - July 31st 2009, 11:18 PM

Is there anybody you can stay with? Are you planning on having the baby? I know there are organizations out there that can help I just can't remember which ones...I'm sorry something like that happened to you.


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Re: My full story (Major *TW* graphic and wrong) - August 8th 2009, 10:42 AM

Hey
I'm so sorry about what happened to you... It now makes sense some of the things you and bennyboy have said...
You need to contact the authorities, police, and give those little fxcked up bxstxrds wat they deserve (sorry got angry there).
Feel free to PM me any time I am ALWAYS happy to help.
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