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So umm... I cant tell if the dream is real or not... - July 29th 2009, 03:18 AM

I've talked to my boyfriend about this but he wasn't too much help. I mean, it help a LOT to finally tell someone. But as for advice, not so much. I don't think he knew what to say.

For a few years now I've been having this nightmare... It's always the same and it's very vague but very realistic. Like, it's in first person but I cant tell many details. But basically, it's me getting raped.
I don't know who the guy is... or where it's even at. And normally, in the middle of the day when I havn't had the nightmare for awhile I dismiss it as just a nightmare. But when I just wake up from it... I'm convinced it's real and shit. I get scared out of my mind. Even pushed away my boyfriend and flinched it he even touched me who I trust with my world. I'm very nervous to do much sexual stuff because of it. Mostly because I'm scared that I'll get scared during anything too sexual.
ANYWAY, I'm rambling.

I suppose my question is... well I don't know. I'm just confused. I'm a little scared for my first 'girl doctor' visit. You know. That stuff. Where they examine your vagina.
I'm afraid that they're gonna find I'm not actually a virgin even though I am and that the nightmare is real. That's what I'm most afraid of I guess. It happened so long ago I suppose I'm obviously not pregnant... and any STDs would have to be dormant I guess. (I didn't tell my mom or anything at first because for so long I dismissed it as just a nightmare, and still usually do.)
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Re: So umm... I cant tell if the dream is real or not... - July 29th 2009, 03:36 AM

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I've talked to my boyfriend about this but he wasn't too much help. I mean, it help a LOT to finally tell someone. But as for advice, not so much. I don't think he knew what to say.

For a few years now I've been having this nightmare... It's always the same and it's very vague but very realistic. Like, it's in first person but I cant tell many details. But basically, it's me getting raped.
I don't know who the guy is... or where it's even at. And normally, in the middle of the day when I havn't had the nightmare for awhile I dismiss it as just a nightmare. But when I just wake up from it... I'm convinced it's real and shit. I get scared out of my mind. Even pushed away my boyfriend and flinched it he even touched me who I trust with my world. I'm very nervous to do much sexual stuff because of it. Mostly because I'm scared that I'll get scared during anything too sexual.
ANYWAY, I'm rambling.

I suppose my question is... well I don't know. I'm just confused. I'm a little scared for my first 'girl doctor' visit. You know. That stuff. Where they examine your vagina.
I'm afraid that they're gonna find I'm not actually a virgin even though I am and that the nightmare is real. That's what I'm most afraid of I guess. It happened so long ago I suppose I'm obviously not pregnant... and any STDs would have to be dormant I guess. (I didn't tell my mom or anything at first because for so long I dismissed it as just a nightmare, and still usually do.)
Blarg.
first of all hunny there is NO way to tell medicaly like that if your a virgin or not, it has been proven tha your hymen can break just by doing the splits or other athletic activity, so really unless you have and std or are pregnant they cant really tell for sure if you are or not.
Second of all, I'm very sorry the dream is haunting your like this, but more often than not dreaming about somthing is really just you subconcious trying to work out problems you concious mind cant : ) so dont take it literaly, try and think of it abstractly.


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