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school. - July 31st 2009, 03:34 AM

so i am one of those short girls who is going into 9th grade, and am only 5ft.i usually hang out with all guys. but today i was hanging out with all of my guy friends at my best friends house (ive known him since i was 4 months old)
and i was watching a tv show where this girl got hit and tackled but three guys on the football team.and i started breaking out in tears.and idk what to do.everything from the past came back to me.i was hit, and kicked around, and pushed against poles and walls by two 6ft tall guys and verbally abused too. all by guys. i need some reassurance and comfort right now. and im stuck with 4 guys all night. someone HELPPPP !


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Re: school. - July 31st 2009, 03:46 AM

Hey Ariella (very pretty name, btw)

I'm really sorry that you were abused by those guys from before but right now you're with your friends and if they're your friends, you should feel safe and you shouldn't worry. or shouldn't have to. you trust them, right?


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Re: school. - July 31st 2009, 04:31 AM

Hey.
I know it's really hard to get over stuff like that. But you gotta remember that these guys are your friends. And that one you've known since you were 4 months old! That's a really strong and stable friendship. He's a good friend, and he's not going to hurt you. And if anyone tried to, I bet he'll stand up for you.
Maybe pull your closest friend aside and tell him about this.

If worst comes to worst, don't feel bad about calling your parents or another friend to come pick you up.



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Re: school. - July 31st 2009, 09:27 AM

its not that i think that they are going to abuse me. i just got really scared. and now my night got worse and i REALLY need someone to talk to. cause my life has basically fallen apart in a day. i need someone to tlk to who wont judge. please someone. message me orr aim me - xxrawrarixx


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Re: school. - July 31st 2009, 11:46 AM

this is the past.

and i believe that these 4 guys should be the trustable kind the past is the past, and you should let it be. true friends will NOT even dream of doing these kind of things because they know how it will impact you .

i trust in them, and i think you should... let those scars fade away.. if you psychologically overcome them, nothing the scars do will affect you.

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