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Unhappy My Mom Verbally abuses me horribly - August 28th 2009, 08:38 PM

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If I were to talk to her what should I start out saying?

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Re: My Mom Verbally abuses me horribly - September 1st 2009, 09:03 PM

You have reached out and asked for help, I’d say that that’s a good first thing to do. I will endeavour to attempt to try and help you figure out what you could say to her, so that it doesn’t make her verbally abuse you more but also make you feel that you are able to stand up for yourself in some way, and make her see what she is saying to you is not fair and wrong of her to say.

What she says to you is wrong and you don’t have to put up with what she is saying. The first thing that I would suggest is walking away and calmly saying I will come back and talk to you when we both have calmed down and we can both discuss what has been said in a way so that we won’t regret what will be said if we talk when we are like this.

You need to be careful not to use the word you, as it can be seen to be a form of attacking and will probably escalate the situation that you are in and will not stop what she has been saying to you. You after could then ask her to sit down with you and discuss your feelings and how what has been said makes you feel.

If you would like any further help feel free to pm me, as I can probably suggest a few other things that would help.

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