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Meh dad is abusing me... again... - September 9th 2009, 05:34 AM

This has happened before. Countless times. I don't even know what the point of trying to stop him is. So far it's only gotten to the verbal but I know the physical isn't too far off. I don't know what to do...


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Re: Meh dad is abusing me... again... - September 9th 2009, 06:14 AM

Is there anyone, maybe at school or your mother/other family members, that you've told about this?


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Re: Meh dad is abusing me... again... - September 9th 2009, 06:26 AM

Hey. It sounds like you are having a really hard time at home right now. That's one of the few places people should feel safe, but unfortunately that doesn't always happen. Is there another parent in the house you could talk to about your dad? He should not be allowed to verbally or physically abuse you and if you can stop it now before it gets worse, you should. I know it can seem like an endless cycle you can't get out of, but there are people out there who want to help you Han. Don't give up and don't be afraid to reach out for help. Talk to any adult you trust; a teacher, the police, or social services. You do not have to deal with this on your own.

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Re: Meh dad is abusing me... again... - September 9th 2009, 10:57 PM

Child services has been called three times. They came once. I don't want that to happen again. It was shit. It's been over a year since they were first called. None of my friends know what my dad is doing. It's so routine. Wait til he hits me. Tell a teacher. Get the people called. It's the same everytime. I want to leave. I want to get out of this fucking house. I hate it here I ran away once but I got caught. I never want to come back once I leave. When I'm eighteen, I'm gone because I CANNOT live with this man I call my father anymore...


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