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Exclamation Boyfriend - November 5th 2009, 12:47 AM

What do u do when your abusive ex wants you back? What if you couldn't tell your parents because you werent allowed to date anyway but now its too late and he knows your phone number and address?
So far he's threatened me and i had no choice but to tell him yes but i need a way out
   
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Re: Boyfriend - November 5th 2009, 01:10 AM

Hi there,

I'm so glad that you have realized that you do not want to be absorbed in this cycle of abuse. Abusive relationships can be so difficult to escape, and are not at all healthy for either side. I think that it is so important that you have decided to reach out for help; this is a huge step. Great job!

I know that you may be afraid of getting in trouble, but if someone is threatening to hurt you, it is important that you tell someone. Perhaps if you cannot start with your parents, you could start with talking to a close friend or relative? You could work your way up to telling your parents.

However, the most important thing here is your safety. If you are in danger of being hurt, contact the police or your local emergency phone line immediately. Check out www.rainn.org; this website has a lot of great advice on how to deal with abuse, and how to stay safe.

Take care, and if you need anything, please do not hesitate to PM me.


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Re: Boyfriend - November 5th 2009, 05:55 AM

definitely tell somebody if you really don't want to be with him.
and if he's threatening, you might as well go to police.
...then again i don't know what you mean by 'an abusive boyfriend' or that he has 'threatened' you... i'm just assuming the worst.


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Re: Boyfriend - November 5th 2009, 07:03 PM

You need to tell someone that can help because if he is very abuseive what would keep him from harming you again. Find someone that can help get him away from you. Don't put yourself in harms way you deserve better.
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Re: Boyfriend - November 5th 2009, 10:57 PM

Even though your parents don't let you date, I think they would rather that you talk to them about this, than hide it from them. You may get in trouble, but you will get the support you need.


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