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Please help anybody - November 23rd 2009, 03:37 PM

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I can't take it anymore. I can't take the hell I go through. I can't. I can't tell cos it makes things worse but I can't carry on taking it. I want to die. Why didn't I do it properly. Why.
   
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Re: Please help anybody - November 23rd 2009, 04:55 PM

Hey there. I see you're going through some troubles. If you don't feel comfortable expressing them publicly in the forums, please don't hesitate to drop me a PM.

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Re: Please help anybody - November 23rd 2009, 09:14 PM

Hey Daisymay,
The worst thing to do when you're feeling like this is holding it all in.
I know coming to terms with rape and abuse is difficult and it sometimes does take a while for things to sink in. I really know it is hard. I've been there myself but part of that acceptance is being able to speak about it and express how it has made you feel. I know it's not an easy thing to speak about, it's painful and sometimes it feels like the worse decision you've ever made but once you get past a certain point talking does become easier and it does seem less daunting.
It takes you time and patience to get to a better place but you do get there eventually and a huge part of that is communicating with other people and letting them know this did happen to you and it is real and you're feeling how you're feeling.
Trying to commit suicide only let's the person who did what they did to you win, you've still got a life and you can take control and win your life back and be the person you want to be, you just have to seize that control. Once you decide to seize that control you make the person who hurt you all the more weaker.
I am here anytime you need to speak, I do hope you take care.
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Re: Please help anybody - November 25th 2009, 08:38 AM

When you have your soul bound by the memories that hurt, i can understand you feel like theres no way you going to break free. i've been in situations that myself dont know how to get over, or to at least cope with it. so i cant say im the best person for advice or the best person to tell you what you should or shouldnt do. however i'd like to believe that we all have beauty in us that many people, even the ones that have hurt you, dont get to see. i say that when you feel alone and when you feel like life needs to come to an end, dont listen to the hurt. Try to listen to the good feelings before the pain...they will find its way back into your life. and when they do, let them in. im sure your a great person and many people know you are. love yourself enough to at least give it the chance to be strong and hang in there.
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Re: Please help anybody - November 25th 2009, 04:03 PM

Hi DaisyMay,

It seems as though you are going through something tough, if you don't want to say it publicly you can always go through the HelpLINK system, the LiveHelp system, or PM's. They all work, and all private.

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Re: Please help anybody - November 25th 2009, 05:06 PM

Thanks for your kind words, really need to hear them right now. Sometimes it feels as though I will feel this rubbish my whole life and that scares me.
   
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Re: Please help anybody - November 25th 2009, 11:33 PM

Sometimes the real struggle in life is staying alive although the feeling of death may sound like perfection. Why take the easy road? Why not change the perception of life and everything that you have put forth into your own life? Try making new friends, talking to some relatives, try moving on from what has happened in the past. The only way to move on is to let the past stay in the past. Please, for everyone who knows you or doesn't know you...don't take the easy way out. Be strong. We all have faith in you.
   
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