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Don't You Dare - December 30th 2009, 01:11 AM

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I confided in you when it happened. You have every bloody idea of what went on and how I feel about it. You're aware I don't remember anything other than the fact it was my fucking father, and the fact I woke up in his bed with soreness in my genitals and blood on my panties. For so long, you lent a helping hand and offered your compassion to me, but lately you've been bloody tactless. I don't get you. First you're sniggering about 9/11, you bastard, and now this?! I trusted you. I bloody trusted you, so don't you dare suggest I rohypnol myself when he comes over - even in jest. It's not funny; it never will be funny, just like 9/11 will never. be. funny. You bloody idiot.
   
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Re: Don't You Dare - December 30th 2009, 05:01 AM

Hey there Elliotte. It sounds like you are dealing with some hard things right now. Unfortunately, people say some really hurtful and just flat out dumb things sometimes.

I hope it helped you to be able to get some of this out a bit. Have you thought about telling this person how what they said made you feel? Sometimes people don't realize how hurtful there comments are.

Are you looking for any sort of advice on this or just needing to rant a bit? Either way, I'm glad you were able to get things out.

I hope you're okay right now.
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Re: Don't You Dare - December 30th 2009, 05:08 AM

Hi Elliotte!

I'm really glad you vented. Some people really don't seem to care about what they say and don't realize that it can really hurt people!

I'm really sorry you feel so horrid. You've obviously gone through a whirlwind of experiences. I hope you feel better, after you posted this!

If there's anything you need to talk about, I'm always around, feel free to PM me (:
Feel better!
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