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it's finally over. - January 6th 2010, 02:17 PM

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I'm back. I got real messed up one night and hurt myself real bad. I was in the hospital for awhile and had to take care of some stuff when I was released. I talked to my girl. She came to see me in the hospital. I never wanted her to see me like that. I never meant for her to have to see me like that. She broke down and blamed herself. I didnt mean to hurt her, I was just being selfish. I finally know why she was being like she was. It all makes so much sense now. She got wet. When the two guys raped her. She keep sayin no and trying to get away but she said she still got wet and she didn't want too and they keep saying how wet she was for them and it made her feel horrible. She keep saying she was a slut and that she didn't deserve me. I wanted to jump up and track them down and rip them apart for what they have done to her. I tried to explain that sometimes your body does things you can't help. Idk. I didnt know what to say...Things have been getting better...working alot of shit out...

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Re: it's finally over. - January 6th 2010, 07:20 PM

Glad you are back Mason. Sorry to hear about everything that happened. Sounds like you went through a lot. That's great you are feeling much better now though. I think you did the right this by talking to your girlfriend. She was probably upset because she cares so much about you and didn't want you to get hurt either. Glad things are getting better.

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Re: it's finally over. - January 6th 2010, 08:24 PM

Hey Mason,

It's good to see that you are okay. I am glad that you tried talking to your girlfriend. The guys who hurt her aren't worth it man. I know you want to tear them apart, but you need to take care of yourself, and her, first. You are right, by the way. The human body responses to touch. Push the right buttons, and the body responses automatically, even if she was saying no. Your body doesn't know the difference between rape and sex, so it will often respond like that. It sucks, but it's nature.

If you need anything, don't hesitate to pm me.Take care Mason.

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Re: it's finally over. - January 6th 2010, 11:41 PM

Its nice to see your feeling better, I wish you and your girlfriend all the best!

Take care!
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