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plea bargin and it begins again - January 28th 2010, 07:06 PM

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i was molested for eight years. it's been almost two years since the abuse stopped... now we finally got to the court stage and my cousin offers a plea bargin. guilty for gross harrassment and he takes the deviency test. i said i thought we should take it. now the whole process is begining again with police from a different county. i'm just scared that this will wreck the relative peace i've been injoying the past few months. it's been nice being happy. i don't want to be the ways i was... any tips on staying strong through this?


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Re: plea bargin and it begins again - January 28th 2010, 07:28 PM

just keep in mind how happy and stress free u can be once its al over

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Re: plea bargin and it begins again - January 29th 2010, 03:16 AM

Hey Lindsay,

So, the only thing you can really do is hang in there. It's alright to remember, and it's perfectly okay to break down. You are so strong to go through this, just hang in there, and keep talking to us.

If you need anything, feel free to pm me.


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