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i just need advice...please... - February 8th 2010, 01:31 AM

Okay, well...I was raped multiple times by the same guy. He changes his look constantly, and every time i see him, he looks different. I've went to the police, they were no help. My boyfriend seems more concerned. I've talked to a few a my closest friends, but this has to be my fault. I met this guy a few years ago, and he's changed so much. NEVER TRUST PEOPLE YOU MEET AT THE MALL!!! He and I talked for a really long time. We kept in contact until he was sent somewhere. He told me he was in Sheppard Pratt, but they have no record of him. The first time he and i had sex, I got pregnant. I was drunk, and he was slightly there. I found out I was pregnant when I was on vacation with my best friend...Him and his brother were with us. I thought I had alcohol poisoning...but, I was going to have a little girl, but i miscarried, and that's when he started raping me by getting into my house at night. I told my mom i want to leave asap, but she just doesn't understand. I don't know what to do anymore, and if somebody has any type of advice they can give me, plz do. I'm scared anymore. Frankly, it's making me want to die.
   
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Re: i just need advice...please... - February 8th 2010, 01:45 AM

this is a serious problem. you need to cut off all contact with this guy and try to figure out a few characteristics of his face, etc that he can't change that you can give to the police. if possible, get a restraining order. tell everyone, warn your friends, take some self-defense classes--anything and everything to make sure that nothing like this happens again.
   
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Re: i just need advice...please... - February 8th 2010, 02:04 AM

Hey there Prudence.

This sounds like a really awful situation to be in and I'm so sorry you are having to deal with it. Have you explained everything that's going on to your mom? She should definitely know. And unless she has all the facts and knows how you're feeling, she can't help. And it's good that you have told the police. Don't be afraid to keep going back until they are able to help you. You should not have to live in fear like this.

I also think you should tell other adults you trust. Teachers, the school counselor, parents of friends. The more people that know and can help you with this, the better. You do not have to go through this alone.

I think it might also help you out to give therapy a try. I know it can be kind of a scary thought, but it really can help. It's nice to have someone you can talk to whom you know has to keep things confidential. Plus they are trained to help you work through these things. They can also help you through the process of pressing charges, getting a restraining order, or whatever action you want to take.

The last thing I wanted to say was that none of what has happened is your fault hun. He betrayed your trust and is the only one to blame.

I hope you're doing okay right now. Keep yourself safe and please reach out for help. You can PM me anytime.
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