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Unhappy Blackmailed - February 25th 2010, 03:30 AM

This Wednesday I was having sex with one of my BF. But the scene was shot on a camera by an ex-BF of mine.
Now he is threatening me to either have sex with him else he will show the video to my father( he is the Inspector General of police). So I can't even complain to the police. Also I have a feud going on with my father.
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Re: Blackmailed - February 25th 2010, 03:39 AM

Call the police? Just because your dad is in the police doesn't mean he will know. In fact, you could just tell them who your dad is to be sure that he doesn't know.
Or you could just tell your dad what your ex is doing. You're 21, it's not like you shouldn't be having sex with your boyfriend and if your dad isn't fine with that it isn't really any of his business anymore. If you tell your dad before your ex does anything then he has nothing to blackmail you with, and seeing as your dad is in the police I'm sure actions would be taken against him.

Either way actions need to be taken against him, whether that's through your dad or not is up to you. What he did is wrong and illegal.


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Re: Blackmailed - February 25th 2010, 03:48 AM

I can't in any way tell the police. My Dad is like the Don of the city and nobody will even question him even if he kills. And I am sure he will kill me if I tell him that I have had sex and am in a problem due to it. As earlier stated I am in a terrible feud with my Dad and only a small provocation will infuriate him more.


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Re: Blackmailed - February 25th 2010, 05:09 PM

If this sex video was filmed without your consent you can go to the police and say that he filmed you without you knowing or wanting, I'm sure there is a law in your country against that.
   
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Re: Blackmailed - February 26th 2010, 07:46 PM

Um, if I understood your post correctly, you were filmed by an EX-BF of yours while you were "at it". What does your current BF have to say about this (after all, he was present as well)???


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Re: Blackmailed - February 27th 2010, 07:32 PM

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Um, if I understood your post correctly, you were filmed by an EX-BF of yours while you were "at it". What does your current BF have to say about this (after all, he was present as well)???
In addition to Aidan's question, are you saying that even if you tell your father he will actually kill you ? or do you just mean that he will be angry at you ?


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Re: Blackmailed - March 1st 2010, 08:29 PM

I have a feeling that we are not completely understanding this because of cultural differences. If i read correctly Katrina you are in India? I'm taking a guess that sex is not taken very lightly in your culture as it is the America's or Canada or somewhere like that. Am I correct? If so could you explain this to us so we can better understand the situation?
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