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Unhappy I was assaulted - March 26th 2010, 01:38 AM

I was sexually assaulted about 6 times. I am too scared to report it. I think that it's all my fault because this person said that it was. This person who is assaulting me told me that I better not tell anyone and if I do then he will hurt me. I tryed stopping him but he still didn't stop. I think its all my fault. I am scared. He made me do things that I didn't want to do. He has done it 6 times. He thinks that he can take advantage of me without anyone knowing what he did.

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Re: I was assaulted - March 26th 2010, 01:42 AM

you need to tell the police. this is a serious offense, and whatever you think, it is NOT your fault. you are the victim here and the police need to know so they can stop this guy from ever doing it again. please, tell someone, so this guy can't hurt you anymore. and it is NOT your fault. PM if you need anything!
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Re: I was assaulted - March 26th 2010, 04:15 AM

Just like SuburbanTiger said you do need to report this. If you need some encouragement look at the post "4 more days" also in this forum. You don't deserve to be treated like this. This isn't your fault either, you're just a victim of someone else's greed.

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Re: I was assaulted - March 27th 2010, 04:07 AM

Hi Rebecca,

I completely understand what you are going through. They use fear, guilt and exploit any weakness to keep control. To break their "control", they need to be reported. I know it's hard to do that.

I was befreinded by someone who took advantage of my anxiety and shyness. He,too, told me it was my fault after he attacked me. Then he brought a friend for the next two attacks.

I reported it after the third attack. As difficult that was, it was easier than living day to day wondering when they will take me again.

Please take away his control, report him and find support. You can PM me anytime if you like.


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