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I don't quite understand... - May 14th 2010, 10:20 PM

I dont know why I still love this guy Im fifteen he hurt me for years since I was ten. I havent seen him in a year. Ive reported him to the police I moved. I have done all the right work to get over this. But for some reason I still love him I dont understand why. Everytime I think this I begin to re-realize how all of this was my fault anyways and how much stuff his wrong with me. I just want to be happy again but I dont know what to do.
   
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Re: I don't quite understand... - May 15th 2010, 05:04 AM

Hey Laura,

Firstly, it is not your fault, not at all. Sometimes we love those who have hurt us, because that is all we have known. It feels normal to love them, and even if you don't want to love them anymore, it's hard not to. That's why so many women stay in abusive relationships, because they still love him. Eventually you will find someone who loves you, and who you can love. It takes time to move on, healing takes time.

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