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He is still doing it! - May 21st 2010, 09:02 AM

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When the abuser leaves the family or when you leave them, the abuse is supposed to ease off if not stop...I wish! He is still bloody abusing my mum and me! he cant do the physical abuse anymore, but he is doing the emotional stuff which I personally found more damaging! Why the hell can't he jst leave us alone?! He is such a bully! I hate him! He is hurting my mum yet again and all I can do is sit back and watch. I feel so helpless and frustrated....Why won't he just let us live our lives?!


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Re: He is still doing it! - May 21st 2010, 12:21 PM

You've got to tell someone as they will help you as you may think they can't help but trust me. Not police but someone who can help.
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Re: He is still doing it! - May 21st 2010, 01:55 PM

thankyou. I have told people, but they wont do anything. and he is absuing my mum too, not just me.


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Re: He is still doing it! - May 22nd 2010, 01:14 AM

Keep telling someone. Even if you talk to teachers and counselors and friends, keep telling until someone helps. Maybe talk to a friend of your mum's, because ultimately, your should be able to put a stop to it. I don't now how it works in the U.K., but here you can get it so that the person can have no contact with you at all, which would probably help you and your mum. Just hang in there.


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