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Found Him... - May 22nd 2010, 12:44 AM

On a certain social networking site. Rhymes with Macecrook.

When I was thirteen, the man was thirty. It's really weird because even looking back on it I don't consider it abuse... I don't feel like It was. But I do question why he got with me. I found him... Six years later. I sent him a message that just said "Remember me?"

I don't know why I did it. I'm confused. For some reason in the last few days I've just started letting everything out that needs to be out... I've wanted to do this for awhile now. He's with a woman that ran after him while we were together. I feel like telling her the truth! Saying listen up, remember me? I taught your kids karate, and while that was happening your boyfriend was having relations (not sex) with a thirteen/fourteen year old.

At nineteen, I still don't view it as abuse since I wasn't harmed in anyway. But I do question why he was with me. He has every chance to hurt me, other things, and he never did. When I told him It was finished he actually cried and never talked to me again.

This is just strange to me guys. What do you think I should do say?

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Re: Found Him... - May 22nd 2010, 01:55 AM

Hey Holly,

It's good to let it all out, but I'm not sure it's wise to regain contact with him. I guess it depends on your motive. If your motive is for closure or answers, then it might be okay. The best thing to say is what you did, and if you want closure, send him a private message on FB. If your motive is revenge, or to embarrass him, or cause problems, don't do it. If you don't know why you're doing, maybe you need to take a step back and think this through.

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