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Me - July 3rd 2010, 02:49 PM

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I love my brother, i don't want to get him into trouble. A friend said his brother is the same but i think that's only talk. I like my brother and i am finding out about masturbation but i am uncomfortable when he does it in front of me. I get the feeling he wants me to be involved. Is this just brother stuff or should i tell.

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Re: Me - July 5th 2010, 04:33 AM

Hey there,

I don't think your brother should be masturbating in front of you at all. That's not a normal or healthy sibling relationship to have and it can be really damaging and abusive.

I think you should tell your brother you want it to stop and also talk to your parents about it. He needs to know it's not okay and you deserve the support of your parents through this.

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Re: Me - July 6th 2010, 10:36 AM

I'd honestly tell your parents. It definitely isn't normal for him to do it in front of you, and really not something you should be forced to see. It could lead to other things that are even worse. Don't look at it as getting him in trouble. It would help him far more to have this issue dealt with so he realizes it's not acceptable, rather than leaving it be.

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Re: Me - July 6th 2010, 10:44 AM

I think you should talk to your brother and tell him to stop- that it makes you uncomfortable. If he then does not stop you do need to go to your parents because it is a form of sexual abuse. I would say go to your parents right away but I understand that you dont want your brother to get in trouble. Maybe talk to your parents one on one (without your brother) first and explain what happens, that it makes you uncomfortable and that you think he needs to get some help. Maybe your brother should be seeing a therapist or something, I dont know. Like I said, I think you should talk to your parents first and then have them help you talk to your brother but if you cant do that, make sure you take to your brother about it to get the behavior to stop.

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Re: Me - July 8th 2010, 10:02 PM

Totally lost my password and the capcom thing is a laugh plus i used a new email address for this.
My brother has said he will stop doing stuff in front of me because i said i would tell mum. I dont care what he does on his own but next time i am telling and i mean that, i will tell. I dont want him watching me so why should i have to watch him.
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