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Just to share - July 16th 2010, 08:27 PM

When i was 10 my mum and dad split up and i got a new stepdad... he was horrible when my mum wasnt watching, he would nip me, slap me, punch me and pull my hair .... gradully it got worse ... he started to sexually abuse me. This happened till i was 13 ... i have never quite gotten over it. I just wanted to share
   
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Re: Just to share - July 16th 2010, 10:31 PM

Hey. 'hugs' If you want to get over it, I would reccommend counseling. It helps so much. Good luck.
   
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Re: Just to share - July 25th 2010, 11:23 PM

Hey there.

First off, conrats for speaking about it here. It takes courage to admit something happened and you've taken the first step.

Your stepdad had no right in any way to touch you. None of it was your fault. It can be a very confusing situation to be in, not knowing how to feel or act afterwards. It takes bravery to face it all, and I have faith in you. However, I do think you should talk to a counselor, or at least tell your mom. A counselor or therapist will never judge you, and you don't have to tell them every detail if you don't want too. If you just want to move past it, you can work it out with him or her, and you don't have to press charges or go to court. It's all in your control, though it might not seem like it. Make the right decision for you, and not anybody else. Good luck! PM me anytime.


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