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Smile no more abuse :) - August 22nd 2010, 09:15 AM

so my brother used to hit me alot, i ended up getting knocked out a few times, bruised, strangled he held a knife up to my neck as well and i was dam scared of him.
but he hasnt hit me in like 2 months now, and the really cool thing is that we are actually really close now. i mean he said he would kick anyones ass if they hurt me, he gave me alot of hugs wen i was crying. he has changed, and i am happy he is better so now i can move on in my life.

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Re: no more abuse :) - August 22nd 2010, 11:00 AM

That's awesome! It's great to see that he's changed and that he isn't hurting you anymore.


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Re: no more abuse :) - August 22nd 2010, 08:35 PM

i am glad that he isnt hurting anymore and that he has change. it is for your good and it looks like you two are getting along now even after what he has done to you and i think that an older brother is suppost be there when there sister needs them.

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Re: no more abuse :) - August 23rd 2010, 08:39 AM

hmmm well i thought he was getting better, he didnt hit me maybe he just being a brother/ dad but he all like "do you want me to crack ur head" because i asked him to say please! gah!!! im still kinda scared of him


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Re: no more abuse :) - August 24th 2010, 12:02 AM

i would be careful of him lots of times when a person abuses they dont stop easily so be wary of him. take care of urself. seriously
   
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Re: no more abuse :) - August 24th 2010, 12:08 AM

Thats great I know the relief I felt when my dad grew out of it. :/



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Re: no more abuse :) - August 25th 2010, 02:27 PM

beka,

it's awesome that he is treating you better, but i would still say to be on gaurd. if you are scared of him a tall you should be on gaurd. You rock, and i'm glad everything is going better for you.

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Re: no more abuse :) - August 25th 2010, 04:51 PM

I think its great he's treating you better Beka. Still be careful and take care of yourself.




   
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Re: no more abuse :) - August 26th 2010, 12:53 AM

That's great news! I hope you and your brother continue to get along.
   
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Re: no more abuse :) - August 26th 2010, 02:00 AM

wonderful good to hear someone giving some positive feedback here instead of always problems (not that it isn't welcome or a good place to vent)
   
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Re: no more abuse :) - August 27th 2010, 07:34 AM

hehe i agree, well actually he is really awesome again. he hasnt yelled at me in a while nor try to be my father.

i just wanna say to you all, that there is always hope! things will get better yu just have to try <3<3<3


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Re: no more abuse :) - August 28th 2010, 07:50 AM

Great news. I want to say that you should be cautious since my abuser might relapse. But over all I am really happy that you brother (might) saw his error in his ways and is trying to correct them. Maybe he has found coping skills that work or if he feels angry try to help him find a coping skill that is help.

I hope everything goes well, and best of luck. (Also I am extremely happy and excited for you and the change that has come your way!)


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Re: no more abuse :) - September 1st 2010, 09:19 AM

Thats awesome, hun. But like everyone else has said, be careful! Please take care. I hope that you never get hurt again.
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Re: no more abuse :) - September 11th 2010, 07:06 PM

i should learn to shut my fucking mouth! and keep out of his way more!!
sorry guys you were right.. i needed to be careful i wasnt, i got hurt grrrrr


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Re: no more abuse :) - September 12th 2010, 01:44 AM

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i should learn to shut my fucking mouth! and keep out of his way more!!
sorry guys you were right.. i needed to be careful i wasnt, i got hurt grrrrr
I dont think so, hun. My brother beat me most of my life. I dont think its at all your fault. Im so sorry that this happened, that he turned. If you need to talk more, feel free to PM me Take care, hun.
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