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Unhappy Guy abuse - October 6th 2010, 10:05 PM

I dont know what to do anymore.

A few weeks back a guy almost raped me. A GUY!!!
He made me strip and didnt allow me to run away. The guy was strong like a bull. I tried to get away but with failure.I was lucky someone came in and stoped him.The guys in jail and stay's for a long time. I steel gate nightmares about it. I just could believe i was about to have sex with another guy before i even got a girlfriend, to hell, before I even kissed for the first time. Was close to lose that too to him. I just dont know what to do anymore. The nightmare stoped a while ago but then i gor reminded about that and now they are even worse then before. I have many sleepless night's or almost no sleep nights. I haven't slept normal for a while.
HELP!

I also have a theory that my other problem is because of that.
http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f14-m...56428-harming/
Because i wanted to kill him. That guy. And i mean it REALLY kill him. Massacre him and everything.
   
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Re: Guy abuse - October 7th 2010, 08:22 AM

Hi,

The aggression your going through is a normal reaction for post traumatic events, especially ones like yours. The chances are is that your feeling helpless and weaker than how you percieved yourself to be and that your lashing out is an example of you trying to regain some of that power. However this is a severe case and you should go see a psychologist or psychiatrist before you put thoughts into action and must deal with the consequence, and dont fret about anger or violent thoughts they are normal and linked with innate processes as well as environmental causes like you event, but you must act appropriately and deal with your thoughts rationally because violent actions are not welcomed into society and will be punished most of the time.
   
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