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i have suffered alot - October 27th 2010, 11:36 AM

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i was dealing with everything really well and most times i still do but having an asian boyfriend is very triggereing especially when he talks about cars i dont tell him why i think i did tell him i was molestered by an asian but not the details so yer i told him hes lucky im dating him saying it only happened at the start of the year... but im coping with it well thought i was i dont get flashbacks as such but i get memories and i feel like its my fault that i purpousley try and remember i have spoken to my counsellor about it affecting me lately more then usual and she did make me feel better slightly by making me aware that abusers always make there victims feel they wanted that they encouraged it and that they asked for it and allowed them to do it a part of me still doesnt know if he just made it feel like i wanted it or if i was a disgusting gross child who wanted and encouraged it but thats how i remember it.... its just hard today we were doing questions and were asked what our saddest part of lives were and how we got through and myne was when i was ment to go into respite care for a weekend and stayed there for 2 years where i was physically mentally and sexually abused in my eyes it was close to torture... and then i suffered so much abuse up there and that question reminded me and then we were asked what was the bravest thing we had done myne was admitting myself to hospital agreeing to be in care and being unable to protect my little brother i still regret that i cant protect him and the stupidest thing is i see my brother every wednesday thats not stupid i love it but the stupid part is my mum refuses to speak to me but now that my dad is dying she wants to rekindle our relationship so i will be there for bryan so not because she wants me but because of him its so hard
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Re: i have suffered alot - October 27th 2010, 05:52 PM

I am sorry to hear that you have been through so much. But I am also glad that you have been fighting and staying strong! It really is admirable.

Have you found things that help when you are having difficulty coping? Maybe it would help to talk to your Boyfriend about it more as well. He may be able to help!

None of this is your fault at all! Even though you feel that way. I know and you know deep insdie you didnt ask for or encourage any of these terrible things I hope that you can beleive this. Maybe you can also express these feelings to your mom, I bet she loves you very much even though she doesnt show it!

Keep being stong!
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Re: i have suffered alot - October 28th 2010, 11:25 AM

my mum doesnt love me shes only talking to me again because my dads dying and my boyfriend well he gave me razors for self-harm
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