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I'm so confused. And scared. - November 4th 2010, 04:39 PM

I don't know whether this belongs in this column so bear with me.

I went to a halloween party last saturday and i got plastered. I'd never been this drunk before, so additionally, i can't remember much of it.

I had my first kiss that night with a guy i've been friends wih for three years.... and that's all i can remember.
I'm almost sure that i'm still a virgin, but i've got stinging pains in my uterus and i don't understand.
I mean, if anything did happen, i didn't want it to happen. So if anything did happen i was being taken advantage of.
Do you think anything might have happened?

How come dumb stuff seems so smart while you're doing it?
Good friends get drunk with you. Best friends hold your hair back when you've had a bit too much to drink!
There's no such thing as good girls gone wrong, only bad girls found out.
I've learned...
that maturity has more to do with what types
of experiences you've had and what you've
learned from them and less to do with how
many birthdays you've celebrated.

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Re: I'm so confused. And scared. - November 4th 2010, 06:42 PM

Hey, I have been through a very similar situation. At the beginning of this school year, I got extremely drunk and 'hooked up' with an ex's best friend--I still am not sure if we had sex; I just know I was violated. But the advantage that you have here is that you've been friends with this guy for 3 years- if you feel comfortable with him, you should definitely ask him about the situation to make yourself feel better.
I think that the pains would probably be more of an aching instead of stinging if you guys had sex, but I'm not positive. Anyway, I would talk to him about it. It might be awkward but it will be a relief to hear the answer. If you need to talk just PM me at anytime. For now just try to relax, I hope everything goes OK
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