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I can't take this anymore - March 1st 2009, 03:52 AM

Both my parents are crazy!! I swear my mother is Bi-polar...Neither of them care about me or my sisters, They tell us we are useless and stupid. Worthless or my mom will tell us she wishes we weren't here. Or that she had different kids. My dad isn't that bad, but he has his moments when my mom pisses him off and then he yells at us or he'll hit us or try to get us and we'll run away. But my mother is the worse!! they both hit us. but my mom is more abusive by her words. She tells me i'm stupid, and a waste of time, she tells me i'm not good enough, im lazy.

Like today i spent 3 hours cleaning for my dad's friend to come over. i clean the best i can and she comes home BITCH's up a storm how it's not clean, yells because i don't know how to do it. Then tells me that she wishes i was not her child. i go to clean what she asks, she takes the windex and spray's it in my face.

She yells and yells and yells about nothing, and rambles on about it. But the next day she's totally fine. Her and my sister fight everyday about anything!!! and everything.

I've tried to talk to her about it but she just gets mad and tells me to suck it up and that life isn't fair. But when your the youngest of three and your the only one that has to do work, and then you get yelled at for doing it... i just can't live with this anymore...


I don't know what to doo........ I have no clue. i can't live with them anymore


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Re: I can't take this anymore - March 1st 2009, 06:00 AM

Hey Katie.

You shouldn't have to put up with this from your parents at all. This is most definitely abuse. If talking to your mum doesn't help, I strongly suggest you file a report with the police or contact child services. They would be able to remove you and your sisters from your house, and get you away from your parents. It's not ok that they're treating you this way, you don't deserve to be in this kind of environment.

Especially if your parents physically abuse you - I can't stress this enough, Katie, you need to tell someone and get away from your parents. It's not safe for you to be around them, for you or your sisters. The police can keep you away from them and make sure you're safe, they can find you either another relative to live with or find you a family you could stay with, where you won't have to put up with the abuse anymore.

Don't let them keep doing this, don't let them keep hurting you this way. Stand up for yourself, you can stop them from hurting you and your sisters. Let me know if you want to talk about anything, ok? Take care of yourself.



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Re: I can't take this anymore - March 1st 2009, 02:05 PM

Hey Katie,

This is abuse & you do not deserve it. I would definately report your parents to the police. You shouldnt have to love with this..its not fair, you & your sisters need to get away.

Even if you rmum is bi-polar, its no reason to treat you like she does.

Katie, darlin, you need to get out...the sooner the better...please talk to someone....

You & your sisters, together, you can stand up to your parents, but I have to stress....GET HELP as soon as you can


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Re: I can't take this anymore - March 2nd 2009, 10:29 AM

hay sweety

their right you and your sisters don't deserve this and you need to get away, going to the police or child services is the best thing you can do. you could also tell a teacher or councellor at your school and they will help you or is there a adult you trust who you can tell? have you ever told anyone befor?

i know what its like to be abused but once i told i felt a whole lot better and it put an end to the abuse.

i understand your mum is not well but it is no excuse for abuse, right now you need to do what you think is right for you and your sisters...you all have the right to feel loved, safe and cared for.

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Re: I can't take this anymore - March 6th 2009, 07:20 PM

my mom used to do that she tell me im useless and she hates she beat the livin crap out off me and my sister i tried to make convencen lies when jaymey did somthin wrong on accedent so i could take the beatin but yea wat u should do is tell a counseler or thepist or a teacher so u will get help u need help wat ur mom is doin aint right ok good luck i hope u get help and life gets real beeter

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Re: I can't take this anymore - March 6th 2009, 07:26 PM

this is a really bad situation. you need to tell someone about this. preferably an adult who will do something to help you. maybe after you tell you can go to a friends house for a little while so you will be safe. my mom's verbally abusive and i know it's hard to tell someone about wat's going on but i know you are strong enough to do it.
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Re: I can't take this anymore - March 6th 2009, 08:02 PM

well... it's almost been a week.. and it's been nice around here. nobodies been hurt or yelled at or anything. But idk whats gonna happen... my sister comes home from college tonight and things tend to get worse... but idk nobody knows besides my three closest friends and i don't think i have to strength to tell anyone else.


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My head is in the clouds...
To have a boy who calls at
My heart is in the sky...
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My mind is in a dreamboat...
to you without a single hesitation
And you're the reason why
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Because sometimes you have to step
outside the person you've been and

remember the person you were meant to be.

The person you wanted to be.

The person you are.
   
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