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Family</3 - July 5th 2011, 11:42 PM

Hi, My name would be Geneva.
I never really had a dad, and when I was 11 my mom just left. So that left me and my brother, I'm 16 and my brother is 25.
2 years ago my brother started physically abusing me. Hitting, punching, kicking, ect. But last year he started to rape me. We used to be really close, I don't know what happended. He still rapes me at least 6 times a week. There was only one person who ever stood up for me, and that was my boyfriend Ryan. Ryan died in a car accident 2 weeks ago, and ever since then my brother has gotten worse on me.
I cut myself all the time, and I have attempted suicide. I just can't live like this anymore. Especially without Ryan</3
Rip.Ryan. xoxo

Ps. Please no hate, just advice would be appreciated.


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Re: Family</3 - July 5th 2011, 11:57 PM

Hey, I am so sorry to hear about your boyfriend Ryan, I also know what it's like to loose someone so close to you. You should call the police on your brother, he has no right to touch you in any way. And cutting yourself is never the answer. Tell an adult you trust or a friend so they can help you.
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Re: Family</3 - July 6th 2011, 04:39 AM

Hey Geneva,

Welcome to TeenHelp!

I’m sorry to hear that your brother is abusing you like this. The best option for you in this situation is to call the police and report your brother. The police will put you in a safe place and they will punish your brother as necessary. You also need to look into grief counseling since your boyfriend died. They can help you with alternatives to the way you are currently coping with your life situation.

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Re: Family</3 - July 6th 2011, 09:06 PM

Thank you both for the advice. But he's the only family I have left, I wanna try and work it out. <3


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Re: Family</3 - July 6th 2011, 10:10 PM

I hope you and your bother are able to work it out
But if things get any worse, you gotta tell an adult.
Also, cutting isn't gonna help anything. I know from experience. It may give you a minute of relief, but then you're back to feeling sad all over again.
Its a never ending cycle.
If you ever feel like cutting yourself, feel free to PM me, i'll help you through it.

PM me anytime!


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