Is it right that I'm nervous?

[lilmissdontwannabehere]

hey I'm just not sure if its right that this makes me nervous. I dont really want to tell my dad and stepmom just cause he hasnt actually done anything. I really dont know what to do about this cause it might get worse.

My cousin and his friend are both 27 and somtimes they live in a camper in my backyard.Well his friend drinks a lot and isnt obviously drunk because his body is used to it now but we all know how much he drinks. He is always spending more time with me than the rest of my family and is always offering to buy me things and give me drinks of his beers and stuff like that. When we were all in the pick up (just me, my cousin, him, and my dad) i was with him in the backseat all day and he was drinking like usual. We stopped to pick up my boyfriend and for lack of space i sat on my bf's lap. My cousin had to slam on the brakes and my bfs head accidently landed in my boobs but were up right away. my cousins friend would not stop talking about how if i were in his lap he wouldve left his head there and gave me a motorboat. he wouldnt stop talking about it. Later that night he kept talking about how i needed to go and get some. and just kept talking about me sexually. my cousin doesnt know how bad it is and my bf never leaves my side when he is around. Even my brother who isnt with us most of the time is starting to pick up on it. I still have no clue what to do. Is especially sense he still didnt quit after i reminded him that im a minor. Does anyone know anything about this stuff?

[Madeleine.Claire]

What he's saying is extremely innapropriate and i can totally understand why you would feel uncomfortable. You should tell your parents about what he's said and how it makes you feel. It is totally gross of him to talk about you like that and your parents need to know. Especially if you have reminded him that you're a minor.

Good luck <3

[lilmissdontwannabehere]

thanks for the advice i think i will tell my stepmom
i just wasnt sure if it was somthing to be nervous about yet or not

[**Ordinary Day**]

Hey Lexie,

A great rule of thumb to go by is, If it makes you uncomfortable, it's wrong. Let him know that's not okay. Sounds like you're already taking the right steps!

Jenn

[Ambiance]

Yeah, just tell someone, he sounds like a creep.

[Le bonheur*]

Telling someone is definitely your best option. If it makes you uncomfortable, it isn't right.