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Would this be sexual abuse? - August 8th 2011, 11:05 PM

I was 7 years old and my mom's bf's daughter at the time who was at least 14 years old convinced me to dry hump with her and she did that with me a lot. What would that be called?


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Re: Would this be sexual abuse? - August 8th 2011, 11:48 PM

I would say that it was some form of sexual abuse, she took advantage of the fact that you were young and would do what she told you to do.
   
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Re: Would this be sexual abuse? - August 8th 2011, 11:53 PM

Ok thanks


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Re: Would this be sexual abuse? - August 9th 2011, 06:09 AM

Hey Brooke,

I agree that it sounds like some form of sexual abuse. Since you were 7, you didn't know better and she took advantage of you.

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Re: Would this be sexual abuse? - August 9th 2011, 09:17 AM

Yes, this would be sexual abuse. To be honest, something very similar happened to me at that age. If you ever need to talk, message me!


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Re: Would this be sexual abuse? - August 9th 2011, 11:11 AM

Definately sexual abuse! Im sorry this happened to you!


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Re: Would this be sexual abuse? - August 10th 2011, 03:21 PM

How did you come to remember it now? I hope it's not something you see as a problem today?

I am not so sure it was abuse. You were both kids, more or less. Kids do things, they experiment with everything and everyone. Would it have been different if she was 7 as well? I don't mean to say you have no right to feel abused in a way, I just think you should try to see the positive side of it - nothing that bad happened after all, right?

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