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i have really been struggling lately over what happened in my family i keep having these flashbacks and nightmares of my dad hurting me and my brother hurting me my biological dad i was with untill i turned 11 then i was with my uncle my uncle did hurt me alot and in alot of ways i just am so confused if these nightmares and flashbacks are real or if i am just thinking of the wrong person in these nightmares i dont normally see a face it is mostly dark and i am screaming alot and bleeding all over me and i am saying dada stop so i really dont know. my sister has been sleeping in my room alot lately and she is telling me i am jumping in my sleep and crying. i just want these to stop i dont know anymore i thought i was ok now this is sucky i want them to stop and i dont know how to handle this i tryed to talk to charlene and that wasnt helpful she said there was this big family secret iwasnt ready for grrr i wish they would just tell me so i could process this stuff idk is it something i need to know or someting that i want to know maybe make me understand more
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Re: why -
August 16th 2011, 02:58 PM
Have you ever spoken to a counsellor about what happened or what your nightmares are about? I know that can seem like a big thing, and it is, but it's also something that could really help. How would you feel going to see your doctor and seeing whether they could refer you to someone to talk to about this more? I think having someone you can talk to on a regular on going basis could really help. Yeah, it may make it 'worse' or bring it to the surface more to begin with but sometimes that's what we need to do to accept and then begin to deal with it.
I even heard your mamma wanted some of this...
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August 27th 2011, 04:57 AM
Hey there, I know how scary it is to deal with flashbacks and nightmares. I also know how confusing they may be to you. In order to get them under control, you have to talk about them with someone. (Such as a counselor.) It is extremely difficult, I know from personal experience, but you need to do this to put your mind at ease. If you need anything, feel free to PM me<3
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