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Unhappy my life - March 16th 2009, 03:18 PM

Warning to those who read its a long post.
i thought i would share about what happened in my life that let me to self destruction and self harm...
When i was 12 i got taken away from my parents by dhs for neglect which they had said that i told them that my parents were, but i didn't and my parents would never harm me and i had just recently been able to get that through to my mom before she passed. Anyway i got taken away and went to a shelter for two months got beat up by the kids and the staff would do nothing about it the only time they did do anything was my first night a guy got his head smashed in and they tried to break it off, they sounded the alarms to get everyone in their rooms i was stuck in some guys room under lock down because they didn't have a room for me yet. They called the police.
two months later i got put in a foster home for two days the lady was really nice but i got transferred to another foster home because she said i was a spoiled brat when i didn't ask for anything and i was nice. So i transferred to the foster home. I had my ears recently pierced before i got taken away and i could have them in the whole time, my ear was infected and had been bleeding for awhile before i got there my first night i slept i starting bleeding on the pillow the next morning they woke us up (i had a foster sister) they looked at my pillow and started yelling then the male threw the tv almost hit my head, then physical punches from both then i got raped by the male. this kept happening i was monitored by both foster parents every time i was on the phone with my parents and whenever DHS came to check up i finally asked my social worker if i could spend my birthday with my real parents they said we will get back to you. I got to spend more than my birthday i got to spend the whole weekend for which i was so happy. I told my parents what was going on that i couldn't say anything because i would be killed. They told me that when i go to school to tell the counselor i did and i had to go to the principle's office he didn't believe me because he had students in the past in their care i got kicked out of school for the rest of the year. Finally my parents were able to get me back on November 7th, 2003 i was 13.
My birthday when i turned 14 i got raped by a tall black male i didn't know him at all. I turned out to be pregnant but had a miscarriage.
when i turned 18 got married to who i thought was good and at the time the love of my life i got abused and then got divorced.
14 months ago got raped by someone i had cared about 9 months later my baby girl Christina Rose was born she was born September 25th, 2008 she is the best thing thats happened yes i was raped to get her but she is still my pride and joy. I knew i was pregnant with but i don't believe in abortion or adoption i mean i do believe in adoption but i don't want to give up any child of mine to dhs or anyone based on my experience with dhs.
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Re: my life - March 16th 2009, 03:27 PM

***big hugs*** Everything you went through is truly terrible. I pray that no one ever hurts you again. I can't imagine living through it more than once. Congratulations on 5+ years of being SH free. You are so incredibly strong. I want you to know that you truly are my inspiration. Hell after all you've been through to come out strong and on top blows my mind. I am glad you shared your story with us. It can be hard but talking through things helps. I wish the best for you and Christina. I am sure she will grow up to be strong just like her mother. Stay strong and take care.

<3- Mimi

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