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Nightingale13 · 12:38 PM

Oh god I dont even know where to begin Oi

Revolution · **Re: Oh god -** October 11th 2011, 03:50 AM

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Nightingale13 · **Re: Oh god -** October 11th 2011, 04:25 AM

I still cant believe it happende

Nightingale13 · 12:35 PM

I came home yesterday, and i started playing with my bro, wrestling like we always do, and he got aggressive, and threw me on the couch, and raped me, it hurt so much. For nearly and hour i was screaming or trying to and crying, then we had finished he started again, another hour passes and i pass out. thank god. i woke up in my pj's in my bed, thinking it was a bad dream, but everywhere still hurt, and i wasnt wearing any panties or bra, and blood was everywhere in my drawers.

Nightingale13 · **Re: Oh god -** October 11th 2011, 04:40 AM

He must have gone two hours straight. thats not the worst ppart though, we share a bedroom, thank god he didnt do anything last night, but i couldnt sleep. And he accted like nothing happend. The bad things is he did do it earlier tonight, again.

Nightingale13 · 04:52 AM

After he was done from behind me ,and in front, he shoved it in my mouth, and he put put his hand on my head and forced me down hard and made me swallow his... i almost threw it up, but he put his hands around my throat hard and said swallow it or ill kill you. He punched me kicked me, and choked me again. after a half hour of him beating me up I couldnt move at all. i stil barely can. please someone helpe me what do i do.

Revolution · **Re: Oh god -** October 11th 2011, 04:55 AM

I'm so sorry this has happened to you.

This must be so difficult to cope with.

Please, I would recommend talking to an adult you trust, and getting yourself and him to a professional. You need to be able to talk this out, along with getting seen by a doctor about the physical damage that may have happened. He is dangerous-the longer he is out, the longer he has to do this again to either you, or somebody else. It is RIDICULOUSLY scary to file a report, but you do not deserve to have this happen again.

Nightingale13 · **Re: Oh god -** October 11th 2011, 05:00 AM

thank you for the help

viemexis · **Re: Oh god -** October 12th 2011, 12:15 PM

This is a nightmare. I agree with Traci, the first thing you need to do is tell someone immediately who can protect you and help you make sure he does not do this again. It'll be hard, but your safety is the most important thing right now. Do you trust your parents? If so, tell them what happened.

PutYourHeartsUp · **Re: Oh god -** October 12th 2011, 02:16 PM

Like said, you need to tell someone. You should go to a doctor too, based on how you said he treated you I'd guess there's some physical damage and they'll be able to make sure it's all okay. You shouldn't be around him, so you really should tell someone. If your parents won't listen, go to someone else like a teacher or a friend's parent.

bailatyvm · staffie since 8.20.11

Also; definitely, definitely DEFINITELY stop sharing a room with him. It's horrible to not be able to feel safe in your own house, even worse to not feel safe in your own room. Maybe make sure he can't get to you alone until everything's all worked out, hm?

Ashleyhateslife · **Re: Oh god -** October 13th 2011, 09:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by viemexis

This is a nightmare. I agree with Traci, the first thing you need to do is tell someone immediately who can protect you and help you make sure he does not do this again. It'll be hard, but your safety is the most important thing right now. Do you trust your parents? If so, tell them what happened.

Not a nightmare? I was confused a little. xD

I think you should tell your parent(s) about it, if not then call CPS. CPS will do something, they will most likely (at the least) make you both have separate bedrooms. It is highly frowned upon that siblings/family members of the opposite sex (excepts parents) that both are under the age of 18 share bedrooms.

CPS was called on my family because my sister and I shared a bedroom with my brother, we had to get separate rooms ASAP!

david2357 · **Re: Oh god -** October 13th 2011, 04:38 PM

you should probably tell the police (as in right now, before the evidence goes away, which only takes a few days).

also, are u really only 8 years old?

vamgurl1 · **Re: Oh god -** October 13th 2011, 10:35 PM

Hey, sweetie. I know this must be hard for you. I've come close to being raped, but I can't even imagine what it's like to have something like that done to me by my own FAMILY. You need to get help, and he needs to go see a therapist. If you EVER need to talk to anyone about anything at all, I'm here. Just PM me. I hope everything get's better.

crissy97 · **Re: Oh god -** October 22nd 2011, 02:15 AM

hunny i have been raped nearly my whole life if u need any thing i am here r u really 8

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Nightingale13 Offline Member Welcome me, I'm new! * Name: Ariella Martinez Age: 9 Gender: Female Location: L.a. Posts: 14 Join Date: October 7th 2011	Re: Oh god - October 11th 2011, 04:25 AM I still cant believe it happende

Nightingale13 Offline Member Welcome me, I'm new! * Name: Ariella Martinez Age: 9 Gender: Female Location: L.a. Posts: 14 Join Date: October 7th 2011	Re: Oh god - October 11th 2011, 04:40 AM He must have gone two hours straight. thats not the worst ppart though, we share a bedroom, thank god he didnt do anything last night, but i couldnt sleep. And he accted like nothing happend. The bad things is he did do it earlier tonight, again.

Nightingale13 Offline Member Welcome me, I'm new! * Name: Ariella Martinez Age: 9 Gender: Female Location: L.a. Posts: 14 Join Date: October 7th 2011	Re: Oh god - October 11th 2011, 05:00 AM thank you for the help

viemexis Offline Owl of the Waste Not a n00b ** Name: Justin Age: 24 Gender: Male Posts: 63 Join Date: October 5th 2011	Re: Oh god - October 12th 2011, 12:15 PM This is a nightmare. I agree with Traci, the first thing you need to do is tell someone immediately who can protect you and help you make sure he does not do this again. It'll be hard, but your safety is the most important thing right now. Do you trust your parents? If so, tell them what happened.

david2357 Offline Member Not a n00b ** Posts: 88 Join Date: July 6th 2011	Re: Oh god - October 13th 2011, 04:38 PM you should probably tell the police (as in right now, before the evidence goes away, which only takes a few days). also, are u really only 8 years old?

vamgurl1 Offline Member Welcome me, I'm new! * Age: 19 Gender: Female Location: my house... :( Posts: 4 Join Date: September 27th 2011	Re: Oh god - October 13th 2011, 10:35 PM Hey, sweetie. I know this must be hard for you. I've come close to being raped, but I can't even imagine what it's like to have something like that done to me by my own FAMILY. You need to get help, and he needs to go see a therapist. If you EVER need to talk to anyone about anything at all, I'm here. Just PM me. I hope everything get's better.

crissy97 Offline everyone on here is cool Regular TeenHelper ***** Name: crystal stuart Age: 15 Gender: Female Location: taree nsw australia Posts: 396 Join Date: September 6th 2010	Re: Oh god - October 22nd 2011, 02:15 AM hunny i have been raped nearly my whole life if u need any thing i am here r u really 8 be brave lifes to short make the most of it add me on http://www.teenhelp.org/ it will do u wonders xxx :P love crystal

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