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Red face Closure - October 28th 2011, 01:56 PM

So.

My brother who i love lots, used to be my least fav person in the world.
We used to get into huge fights, i'd end up sore and bruised, i got a few concussions, ran away from home with a blood nose, strangled. And i hated him for it. i moved away from him in december last year and have seen him twice since. I struggles with memories and the feelings of it was my fault for so long, and yeah it still hurts sometimes, but some how i got through it.

I think the things that helped me the most was finally getting it out there and telling someone, (my youth group leaders) and they talked me through ways of getting help, how to counter attack flash backs, alot of breathing and consentrating on the now kind of things, it took practise, and hard work but it's paid off.

I saw my brother two months ago, he has grown up alot, he even gave me a hug in front of his friends, we got along, he hugged me when i started to cry, he was really good to me, it gave me that bit of closure that i needed to be able to live again.

So i just thought i should post this here so that on the off chance someone reads this they can see that you are not alone, and things can/will get better. i promise. you just need to work through it

much loves my darlings xoxox


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