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Question He denies it ALL- - November 10th 2011, 10:36 AM

I was raped, and he denies anything happen. He knows he pushed me to far, yet he will not admit to actually going inside of me. He says nothing happened. After it was done, and I finally could push him off, I yelled "I told you no!" He said 'I wasn't making you!" really pissed off. How, did you deal with the person denying it? I've never reported it, I don't think I can go through with it all. He'd make me look like the biggest lier...
   
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Re: He denies it ALL- - November 11th 2011, 02:37 AM

Go to the police and file a report. They will run a polygraph test on him as part of the interrogation.
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Re: He denies it ALL- - November 12th 2011, 09:36 AM

If you believe he raped you, go file a report.
I don't know how old you are, or how old he is, or what you guys really did, or what your mental state was/is like, but if it feels right for you to claim to have been raped, go for it.
   
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Re: He denies it ALL- - November 13th 2011, 12:12 AM

I told him no, that I wasn't ready. Neither of us were under the influence of anything. I had never done anything sexual and I told him I wasn't ready, I said no more than once and tried pushing him off of me, but nothing worked. After he went inside of me and he finally stopped I screamed "I told you no" and he said annoyed, "I wasn't making you. Nothing happened."
   
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Re: He denies it ALL- - November 16th 2011, 12:10 AM

If I were you I would tell the police. Even if you don't think you can take it, its much better than letting that jerk get away with raping you. And who knows, he may have done this to other girls. Show him that your stronger than he is. That's the #1 reason for rapists today, that they don't have any control, so they force girls to do stuff they don't want to do. Its not fair to you.


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Re: He denies it ALL- - November 16th 2011, 04:51 AM

Even if you do not file a report, I very highly recommend you tell an adult you trust and see a professional. Dealing with a rape is not something that is easy on the human psyche, and overtime, holding this in can really harm you. Getting yourself a professional to talk to would be a great way to cope, and you are always welcome to PM me as well.


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Re: He denies it ALL- - November 17th 2011, 04:57 AM

Of course he denies it. He doesnt want to go to prison. I suggest filing a police report. Even if he gets away with it, the cops would probably still know about this report, increasing the chances of him arousing police suspiscioun the next time he rapes someone else (really , there is absolutely no reason to believe he wont do it to someone else.).

also, it doesnt take a guilty verdict, or even a trial to hurt him. Being put on trial or arrested for rape, or even seriously investigated for it would be pretty bad for his reputation. Also, this added suspiscioun from the general public would decrease his chances of getting away with it a second time.

Who knows, maybe when the cops question him, he would be dumb enough to directly or indirectly reveal that he did it.
   
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