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Post brother was - February 27th 2012, 03:57 AM

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well, ive made a few posts that are usually solved but there somthing ive kept to my self and no one knows what had been eating away at me for many years now. and i gotta get it out, and im not sure if this is the right place for it soo yeah..

so when i was about 7, me and my big brother wer really close after our father died, but we loved to play and have a grand time, usually destroying stuff and causing havoc.. and then one day he started being weird, everything was so fun and full of joy until that day came and continued for 1 year that ruined everything for me. every weekend he would come over to spend then night, harmless fun right? nope, he beat the trash out of me and to make it worse he like (umm i dk how to put this so ima be blunt about it i guess) he raped me. every weekend ,even when my mother questioned me about it i deneyed it cause i was scared i was a bad person if i told on him. and ever since i haven't been the same, like i lost all the happyness. i still find my self crying at nights cause i know what happend and theres nothing i can do to fix it all.... Maybe i deserved it? maybe i should have told?-- Thanks for reading
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Re: brother was - February 27th 2012, 04:11 AM

Yes you NEED TO TELL IT IS NOT TOO LATE TO TELL. Please telll your mom and the police. YOU DID NOT DESERVE IT. He abused you pyshically and sexualy THATS AGAINST THE LAW AND NOT RIGHT. Your brother is sick and needs HELP so he doesnt do this to any one else. Once you tell the police and your mom you need to keep some councling to deal and cope and heal and work through the abuse you went through. What your brother did was WRONG IT WA SNOT YOUR FAULT YOU DID NOT DESERVE IT. YOUR BROTHER CHOOSE TO DO IT HE MADE THAT CHOICE YOU DID NOT HE DID IT BECAUSE HE WANTED TO NOT BECAUSE YOU DESERVED IT.

NO ONE deserves to get raped or abused. You need to get away from your brother dont be with him alone. Im sorry this happened to you I really am its sad people can abuse people like this and dont relize there really hurting the person. You need to tell your mom and the police. Also councling will be a MUST .
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Re: brother was - February 27th 2012, 04:41 AM

You did not deserve to go through that at all and I'm very sorry you had to deal with being hurt like that. Your brother had no right at all to do what he did. I want you to know that this is not your fault and that there was nothing that you did that would warrant this kind of abuse.

I definitely think that you should tell someone about this. Tell your mom, tell another family member you trust, or a school guidance counselor. Any of those people will be able to get you help. Rape is a serious crime so even if this happened when you were seven, it's still okay to tell somebody.
Stay safe, and take care!

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Re: brother was - February 28th 2012, 09:13 AM

hun nobody desevers to get raped and no you arnt a bad person you should tell somone so they can stop it k pm me if u have a question

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Re: brother was - February 28th 2012, 04:39 PM

Never, ever think you deserved something like that or it happened because you were a bad person. You were seven years old, for someone to do that to a person, especialy there own brother! is vile, your brother needs to be reported, and i know its a very hard thing to talk about trust me i know, but what if he does that to another child? maybe even his own children! You wouldnt want them going through all the pain and grief your feeling :/ Im so sorry something like that has happened to you, its a horrible memory to have, and it might seem like you'll never be able to really enjoy life knowing what has happened to you, but it gets better okay =) And your very brave for opening up, even if its on TH i know it takes alot take care hun <3
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Re: brother was - March 3rd 2012, 07:41 PM

thank u all for replying, i had made me choice and im much better i got it out there after soo long, but still sucks
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Re: brother was - March 4th 2012, 06:05 AM

Seeing as the OP has received multiple replies and seems content with them, I am going to close this thread, however to the OP, if you want me to reopen it just shoot me a PM and I gladly will.

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