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Exclamation Insecure - March 1st 2012, 07:28 PM

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I guess i wasn't really raped. So i don't know if i count. So please don't be offended for me thinking i do.

He touched me when i begged him not to. His hand went lower when i tried to push him away. God it hurt so bad. I don't want to go into graphic detail so i'll leave it at that. But i feel so disgusting for it. And i told my ex boyfriend, who i happen to still be in love with. And he made jokes about it. It makes me feel like its my fault.
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Re: Insecure - March 1st 2012, 08:30 PM

Hey Alicia,

Of course you count! You're allowed to post about any questions or concerns you may have. Don't worry.

First, it's NOT your fault. What he did to you was wrong and it isn't anything to be joking about. I'm sorry that it's happened to you and that your ex made it a laughing manner. You don't deserve that, not at all.

Have you ever told anyone what this boy did to you? If not, I suggest you do. It doesn't have to be a police officer if you don't want to go that far. However, I do encourage you to talk to a friend or a trusted adult (teacher, parent, aunt, uncle, nurse, etc.) to help you get through this. I'm not sure how long ago this was, but it seems like it's still affecting you in a negative matter and you deserve to be happy.

Feel free to PM me if you need a chat.

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Re: Insecure - March 3rd 2012, 08:11 AM

When a girl says no, it means no. Not cool what that guy did. :l

But, your ex boyfriend might of been trying to make you feel better by bringing some humor into it? Sometimes (trust me) when boys are presented with a serious problem, the only thing we can think of is humor.
   
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Re: Insecure - March 3rd 2012, 06:16 PM

Thanks guys, for the support :3


Are you always sad? Someone asked.
(Always is such a long, long time)
I couldn't say. But
If sadness was a sea, I'd drown in it.
(Salty and warm, sadness is.)
(Cold, too. Sometimes)
And I happen to love the sea.


And I watched your words burn tiny holes
into my retinas. Just wide enough to crawl into,
And forget you ever were.
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Re: Insecure - March 8th 2012, 12:49 PM

You're welcome.

Seeing as this thread hasn't gotten anymore replies, and the OP doesn't have any other questions, I'm going to go ahead and close this. If you have any other questions feel free to PM me and I'll reopen the thread. Or, you could just make another thread!
   
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