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My Confession - March 7th 2012, 02:32 AM

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My brother is abusive. He was emotionally, sexually and physically abusive before. Now he is just emotionally abusive. Starting from the beginning...well it started after my parent's divorced. I was in either 3rd or 4th grade. My brother and I would get into a lot of fights, which I guess is normal. But normal stops when he started controlling the money and controlling well us. He would say what we bought in groceries, always wanted to know where I were going/what I was doing before I hung out with friends and such, and just the intensity of his emotions got to me. My brother has anger issues and I think he-like my mom-is bipolar. My brother always talked about how my grandma was evil, how he wished her dead, and he said some nasty things about my dad and my step-mom, too.
In either 4th or 5th grade, my brother sometimes would hit, slap, or kick me when he got angry sometimes as well. In either 5th or 6th grade, that's where some things got sexual as well. He would grab at my sister's and I's chesty bits and bottom bits (clothes on though). He said he was always joking and such. I told him to stop sometimes and he didn't. He has said some pretty sexual things, too. Like if I wasn't related to him, he said he would date me and have sex with me. My brother has also made me kiss him on the cheek and even on the mouth. He has said that I have a "nice butt" and has complimented my breasts before too. Sometimes he has made me smack his butt (with his boxers on) and touch his yoohoo (with boxers on, too, though) He was the one who grabbed my hand and made me though. He said it was a joke and he never made me actually touch it without clothes on and when he did it, it was only for a couple seconds.
(I have never admitted the part about him making me kiss him before and touch him before now..Ever. To anyone. I'm literally crying now, too...)
He has stopped with the physical and sexual abuse but he is still emotionally abusive. I am afraid of him. I feel a little better typing this but I am also scared...oh and now I am in 8th grade. I think I might have forgotten some other details but this is all I can remember for now.

I just needed to type this up...


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Re: My Confession - March 7th 2012, 03:18 AM

((( I love you Steph... <333 I am here for you!!! If you ever need a shoulder to cry on just call me and I'll be here
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Re: My Confession - March 7th 2012, 03:21 AM

I love you too! <3 And I am so embarrassed you read this, even though I said you could and I am scared and nervous and shy and yeah... <3


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Re: My Confession - March 7th 2012, 09:12 AM

Hey there Stephanie. I'm sorry that all of that happened to you, you in no way deserved any of it. I think you should maybe report him to the authorities. What he did was wrong, everything he did was wrong. All of the abuse he's put you through, none of it was right and to be honest, in my opinion you really should tell the authorities about what happened. I also think you might benefit from talking to a professional like a therapist or counselor about what happened. If you ever want to talk, my PM is always open.


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Re: My Confession - March 8th 2012, 03:25 AM

I`m her for you as well Stephie! I love you! <33
   
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