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4 years and it still haunts me - April 7th 2012, 05:41 AM

i was raped almost 4 years ago and i just can't stand the guilt and shame any longer. i feel like it was all my fault. i don't know what to do anymore. i thought i was over it but it came slamming back in my face. i can't forgive myself and the thing that hurts is i keep running from God because i feel like He probably thinks it was my fault too. i want to give up. i feel so alone. someone tell me i'm not being a baby about this.
   
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Re: 4 years and it still haunts me - April 7th 2012, 07:44 AM

Your NOT a baby about anything you did or said . It is NOT your fault . Who ever raped you it is HIS FAULT. NOTHING gives a guy the right to rape a girl . You should not feel guilt you did NOT do anything wrong . EVERYTHING that he did to you was HIS FAULT. Remember Rape is never justified. If you still feel these feelings consider ringing a helpline / counselling service, talk to a counselor or a close friend .
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Re: 4 years and it still haunts me - April 7th 2012, 08:35 AM

Thanks Janine. I really needed to hear that.
   
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April 10th 2012, 03:47 PM

"But if in the field the man finds the girl who is engaged, and the man forces her and lies with her, then only the man who lies with her shall die. 26"But you shall do nothing to the girl; there is no sin in the girl worthy of death, for just as a man rises against his neighbor and murders him, so is this case. 27"When he found her in the field, the engaged girl cried out, but there was no one to save her," Straight out of the bible. Deu. 22: 25- 28

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Re: 4 years and it still haunts me - April 12th 2012, 03:27 PM

hey danielle... i'm so sorry that this happened to you, it shouldn't happen to anyone at all
and.. i know that God is just, and He will surely not think that what happened to you was your fault at all.. it is not your fault.. it was the choice of the rapist who hurt you so much...
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