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Fallin - July 28th 2012, 12:07 PM

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So, Since me & my BF has been going out for weeks now, all i have been having is

BAD DREAMS back to back....I have nothing on my mind, No thoughts, no nothing...

Its Takin over of how i feel...Wats Wrong with me?

Its because of his mother & how shes treating him & I, Idk wat to do....My Heart i Broken in the Inside because of his Parents wont leave him alone even though he's 25....

All i want to do is Cry....

If this isnt in the Right Spot PLEASE FEEL FREE TO PUT IT WHERE IT GOES!!!

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you try and try to do everything you can. Then it gets harder.

Then you give up. Then its all over.

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Re: Fallin - July 29th 2012, 08:41 PM

I don't know the details of your situation or if how I've felt in the past relates, but there is this girl that for the longest time I've had strong feelings for. We are just friends, and that's most likely what we will always stay as, but I care about her deeply.

Constantly she is a victim of her families drama and abuse, and her boyfriend is constantly making her feel conscious about her weight and giving her even more drama and stress to deal with. I hate to see her in pain, and I wish there is something more I could do to help her. It brings me down a lot when I think about what she's been through, or is going through. She is a strong person, and I admire her for that.

It seems the most we can do for our loved ones is make sure that we are there for them when they need us. I do whatever I can to cheer up, whether it be getting her out the house to get her mind off things, going out to grab some food, or having a one on one to talk about how she feels. I care about more than anything in this world pretty much, and I know that whatever I can do, I will do.

You can't let his drama bring you down though, you have to find strength from within to stay at your best. We can't help the ones we love if we are having our own inner turmoil to deal with. As much as I love her, I understand that in order to do what I can for her, I gotta put my own feelings and my own issues as priority over anything.

I'd say try to make some time out to take care of yourself, and to understand what truly is bringing you down. If you can stay strong, you can help him stay strong.

Sorry I don't really have much advice to offer, but I do hope you feel better!
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