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Unhappy Sometimes i really hate myself - July 29th 2012, 05:05 AM

i feel like i'm too much of a burden to people. I'm very sensitive, i get hurt too easily and sometiomes its just like "Why are you crying it's no big deal" but i can't help but cry anyway and of course sour the moods of those around me. It's also for this reason i think im too selfish, I feel like i want too much or im too needy to the people who just dont have the time. I get jealous at everything, my loving boyfriend will say something tiny and insignificant like "She's pretty" and all of a sudden instead of letting him give the compliment to a girl who probably deserves it, i'll turn it on myself and start getting upset and self analyzing like "what's wrong with me? i look nothing like her. How do i fix that?" you know? i hope i'm making sense. Its selfish and awful but i can't help it, and then after i feel that way, or i say something, or i hurt someone's feelings, or i make someone mad or upset, i just start to punish myself and think about what an awful human being i am. I hope this made sense... I'm just looking for a way to feel better or a way to be better, or even somebody to relate to maybe?

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Re: Sometimes i really hate myself - July 29th 2012, 02:25 PM

Hi there, sorry to hear about your problems

But know that you are not a burden. There are always people there for you when you need it. I can understand with the sensitivity as its something thats attributed to me aswell. My friends are very loud and boistrous and they indulge in "banter" sometimes which I get the wrong side of and I react in a bad way.

You don't need to self analyze, your yourself and that in essense is perfection. Don't ever try and be somebody who your not. Just be yourself and that is the most beautiful thing you could do.

Your not an awful human being and you are definetely not worthless. Please know that and if you ever want to talk feel free to inbox me
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Re: Sometimes i really hate myself - August 2nd 2012, 05:42 AM

Oh sweetie, I know exactly how this goes ):
I've thought all of those things and still do almost daily even though my own boyfriend tells me not to.
Keep your head up. I don't know exactly how to improve this ): if you find out let me know? (:
If you ever need to talk I'm here ^-^ just pm me and I'll try to get back as soon as possible (:
I bet you are a brilliant and wonderful person (: dont forget to look at what all you have accomplished! As for your boyfriend when he makes those comments, just remember who he is with. He is with you and not the "pretty girl" nearby. Talk to him about it if you are really concerned. I bet he will listen (:
Good luck!
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