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I need to be told what to do, literally - December 2nd 2014, 01:07 AM

First, I need to say I'm really sorry if this is in the wrong place.

I need someone to tell me what to do, I'm serious. I can't have options without picking apart every last consequence, and regretting(for real) what ever option I choose. If the options involves people its even worse, I have the overwhelming feeling that the person/people the option involves positively hates me and I am in the way. The more I try to ignore the feeling and push it away the stronger in becomes. What can I do? I know this sounds silly but
I'm for real. At times I even feel my entire existence is in the way and forgotten. I don't know what to do. I can't see a therapist or anything because of my parents, money, but mainly parents.

Please Please forgive me but I don't know how to delete this thread, I don't know if I'm missing something or someone else does it. So I will just type it for now and maybe someone will let me know which. Closed

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Re: I need to be told what to do, literally - December 3rd 2014, 03:36 AM

Hi There, welcome to TH!!
I hope you are finding your way around the site okay and that we can help in some way.
I am not exactly what to tell you to do other than it would be highly beneficial and could be very useful for you in many ways, to talk to a therapist or counselor about this. You ould have issues relating to relationships that make you worry about making decisions or maybe growing up you were not given much choice and any choices you were given from a young age could have affected those you care about. So now you could be making decisions in the same way because that is all you know. Now you are in a time of life where your choices need to be more of what you want, about what you think and believe you need to do/what you may require for assistance.
I know it is worrying but there is help for this. It will take time, work, effort and being open and honest with someone who can help you but the results overtime will be worth that vulnerability.
Take care and I hope this helps you.
You ca PM me if you would like someone to talk to.

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